"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The power of music

floydtheater07

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Whenever I feel like I'm not doing so good with the women, I listen to music to help me out. Certain specific songs that help are "Under My Thumb" and "Best Of Burden" by The Rolling Stones, and "Walk" by Pantera.


Feel free to share your own.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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oilers05

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You don't listen to music to get more action, you listen to music to get more confidence, a boost, to motivate/feel better about yourself.

A lot of WWE wrestler's theme songs do they trick, I don't care if you don't like wrestling, the music is good for you.
 

floydtheater07

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Originally posted by oilers05
You don't listen to music to get more action, you listen to music to get more confidence, a boost, to motivate/feel better about yourself.

A lot of WWE wrestler's theme songs do they trick, I don't care if you don't like wrestling, the music is good for you.


Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
 

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Music helps big time. I put on some 80s rock and I'm ready to do just about anything.
 

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How often does this get done, its way overdone, its not a real tip. I hate the way you all come on here thinking you are the first one to think of listening to music to prep yourself is a new tip.

But anyway im going to READING, it rocks, pick up girls.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Walk" by Pantera is an excellent choice. You know what you're doing....

I find that a lot of Pantera songs help me out. A lot of them are about building confidence to a whole new level and kicking ass.
 

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my pimpin soundtrack

Jazz is the music of players, 70's funk is the music of pimps.
i listen to both.
 

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big up to
Miles Davis, Thelonius Monk, Charlie Parker, Marvin Gaye, Bob Marley and my man Isaac Hayes!
 

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I usually listen to some Kid Rock (older stuff) before I go out.

It adjusts my attidude to the perfect level.

I'm an American Bad Ass
Watch me kick, you can roll with Rock
Or you can suck my d***
I'm a porno flick, I'm like Amazing Grace
I'm gonna f*** some hoes after I rock this place
Superfly living doublewide
Side car on my Glide so Joe C can ride
F***'n sack to share, bringing flash and glare
Got the long hair swinging, middle finger in the air
Snake skin suits, 65 Chevelle
See me ridin in sin in the rebel yell
I won't live to tell, so if you do
Give the next generation a big F*** YOU
Who knew I'd blow up like Oaklahoma
Said F*** high school, pissed on my diploma
Smell the aroma, Check my hits
I know it stinks in here, cause I'm the S***
 
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