"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Power Of Man

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Your Value Is Equal To The Value You Place On Yourself.

You May Add To This Value By Doing Things You Enjoy and
Learning To Succeed At Your Enjoyment.

You Are Second Only To God, Yet Equal To Him In Form.

Thus Your Power Exceeds The Millenia

Breathe Fresh Air My Brothers.





My Power Has Lead Me Away From This Site (That Is When You Know Your Truly Growing And Transforming). Now I'm In The Long Term Relationship With A Beautiful Young Lady Who Will Be Releasing Her Album Next Year? Who Has Asked Me To Bear Her Children And Puts Me On Her #1 Priority. Coincidence That We Both Have A Gift For Music? Not Really. Seek What Your Soul Desires And You Will Eventually Get It. That Is The Power Of God Within You..

Seek..Pay Your Dues...Become The Man You Want To Be
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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