I know all of you are familiar with the C+F technique. You probably used it before, you probably had some small success with it, BUT it didn't impress you, so you are wondering about why Master DJs keep mention it in their stories of success.
Here are two examples of how I use it. I am by no means a Master DJ and I also don't try to make you think I am but what I talk about is tested by myself in the field so that's why I think you guys will appreciate it.
I went to the disco with some of my friends. The usual disco atmosphere, lots of drinks, lots of smoke and a lot of hot chicks. I see this one girls (HB8-8,5) giving me EC so I approach. "Hi! How you doing?" nothing special. I talk to her for a bit and we go to the dance floor. After about 2 songs we start kissing. A make out session follows. This all was accomplished by body language and confidence. Time goes by and she asks me to go home with her, so I throw the first C+F line at her: "You mean I should settle with just one girl tonight??" with an evil smile on my face. From that point on she was looking at me like I was a GOD, and that's not what I noticed, its what my friends kept telling me about her. For the next 2 months that we went out 1 time a week (and her always calling me) she would have done everything I told her (didn't abuse this though because I am a gentleman
).
This little story above is an example where little C+F combined with all the other things a DJ can use to seduce a woman (kino, body language, eye contact and social proof), gave a good result. The next one is based almost exclusively on C+F and that means no eye contact, no body language, and no kino whatsoever because it took place in a car, just some social proof.
Match day. Dinamo Bucuresti was about to play in 1 hour. My best friend had to pick me up from my parents house. My cellphone rings and I go out to his car. Surprise surprise, he is with a girl, so I'm what the **** is he doing. This would usually be a good thing, but not on match day. The poor little AFC tries to make some C+F comments like: "Tavi, meet my latest seduction" and the girl really seemed to digg him. We get to the gas station immediately and he goes out to fill up the tank so I'm WTF, a little training can't hurt nobody. While adrenaline was rushing trough my veins because of the football game I put up a good conversations. C+F all the way. Kino and usage of body language was not possible because she sat in the front seat and I was in the back, just a little eye contact when she was turning her head around. Here are some things I said (remember all were said by me like jokes, if you are to serious it won't work):
Tavi: -So what are you up to?
Her: - I thought C (my friend) was going to the disco...
T: (without letting her finish her sentence) - What? You wanna come to the disco without dressing sexy? You wont get a chance with me dressed like that
T: -Where do you go to school?
Her: -blabla high school...
T: -What still in high school? You wanna put me in jail because you are too young?? ( Has same age as me though )
T: -So hows your love life going?
Her: -bla bla I don't have a boyfriend right now...
T: (interrupting her again) -Hold on, I dont have a girlfriend either.
Her: -I'm not trying to seduce you.
T: -Yeah right...
My friend paid for the gasoline and we went to get her home. We got out of the car and I saw she was about a HB7,5-8. Nothing special, but great for practice like any other girl. The thing is know she was getting close to me and grabbing my hand. While doing this she kept asking us to take her with us. Well I just thought she was up for a hookup, but no girl can make me loose Dinamo Bucuresti playing so me and my friend took of.
Now this would seem like a decent conversation that built up enough attraction in the girl. The thing is that now, some time after this happened my friend told me that whenever they met she kept asking about me, but he didn't tell me because he kind of liked her. Poor guy.
Remember that I could only make use of C+F on this girl. It seems pretty impressive to me how a basic conversation like that could get a girl so attracted to me. She didn't even know how my body looked like until we got out of the car.
I hope this is a little more then the usual advice like "use C+F, it works" and all of you will integrate it in your Don Juan arsenal. I truly believe it is the most effective weapon.
Pook said: "As you think, you shall become!" its true, but a little technique to it also helps. So develop your attitude, add technique to it and you can almost call yourself a Don Juan!
Here are two examples of how I use it. I am by no means a Master DJ and I also don't try to make you think I am but what I talk about is tested by myself in the field so that's why I think you guys will appreciate it.
I went to the disco with some of my friends. The usual disco atmosphere, lots of drinks, lots of smoke and a lot of hot chicks. I see this one girls (HB8-8,5) giving me EC so I approach. "Hi! How you doing?" nothing special. I talk to her for a bit and we go to the dance floor. After about 2 songs we start kissing. A make out session follows. This all was accomplished by body language and confidence. Time goes by and she asks me to go home with her, so I throw the first C+F line at her: "You mean I should settle with just one girl tonight??" with an evil smile on my face. From that point on she was looking at me like I was a GOD, and that's not what I noticed, its what my friends kept telling me about her. For the next 2 months that we went out 1 time a week (and her always calling me) she would have done everything I told her (didn't abuse this though because I am a gentleman
).This little story above is an example where little C+F combined with all the other things a DJ can use to seduce a woman (kino, body language, eye contact and social proof), gave a good result. The next one is based almost exclusively on C+F and that means no eye contact, no body language, and no kino whatsoever because it took place in a car, just some social proof.
Match day. Dinamo Bucuresti was about to play in 1 hour. My best friend had to pick me up from my parents house. My cellphone rings and I go out to his car. Surprise surprise, he is with a girl, so I'm what the **** is he doing. This would usually be a good thing, but not on match day. The poor little AFC tries to make some C+F comments like: "Tavi, meet my latest seduction" and the girl really seemed to digg him. We get to the gas station immediately and he goes out to fill up the tank so I'm WTF, a little training can't hurt nobody. While adrenaline was rushing trough my veins because of the football game I put up a good conversations. C+F all the way. Kino and usage of body language was not possible because she sat in the front seat and I was in the back, just a little eye contact when she was turning her head around. Here are some things I said (remember all were said by me like jokes, if you are to serious it won't work):
Tavi: -So what are you up to?
Her: - I thought C (my friend) was going to the disco...
T: (without letting her finish her sentence) - What? You wanna come to the disco without dressing sexy? You wont get a chance with me dressed like that
T: -Where do you go to school?
Her: -blabla high school...
T: -What still in high school? You wanna put me in jail because you are too young?? ( Has same age as me though
)T: -So hows your love life going?
Her: -bla bla I don't have a boyfriend right now...
T: (interrupting her again) -Hold on, I dont have a girlfriend either.
Her: -I'm not trying to seduce you.
T: -Yeah right...
My friend paid for the gasoline and we went to get her home. We got out of the car and I saw she was about a HB7,5-8. Nothing special, but great for practice like any other girl. The thing is know she was getting close to me and grabbing my hand. While doing this she kept asking us to take her with us. Well I just thought she was up for a hookup, but no girl can make me loose Dinamo Bucuresti playing so me and my friend took of.
Now this would seem like a decent conversation that built up enough attraction in the girl. The thing is that now, some time after this happened my friend told me that whenever they met she kept asking about me, but he didn't tell me because he kind of liked her. Poor guy.
Remember that I could only make use of C+F on this girl. It seems pretty impressive to me how a basic conversation like that could get a girl so attracted to me. She didn't even know how my body looked like until we got out of the car.
I hope this is a little more then the usual advice like "use C+F, it works" and all of you will integrate it in your Don Juan arsenal. I truly believe it is the most effective weapon.
Pook said: "As you think, you shall become!" its true, but a little technique to it also helps. So develop your attitude, add technique to it and you can almost call yourself a Don Juan!