"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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the power of *****, any *****

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So I have this female friend of mine Ive written about in previous posts who is a 22 years old mere HB6 (at max) with no boobs and ugly nose.

She just has dozens of guys trying to get in her pants and many of them are pretty attractive and goodlooking which is totally unbelievable for me but ok.
She complains everyweek about how guys try to fake friendship to get to bang her, how many guys add her on FB, random guys, etc etc

Now, some weeks ago her salsa teacher, after a night of salsa dancing, asked her if she wanted to go to have a drink at his place (just out of the blue) and she agreed. No previous date, no previous made out...nothing...directly to the point.
This guy licked her ***** but they did not bang, ok...whatever...
Now she is more than happy because she sees her salsa teacher as a pretty high value man (eventhough he's pretty short) with a lot of status in the salsa scene. This guy wants nogthing from her besides a booty call, but she gladly agrees because she considers he's alpha/has status.

Now they're FWB but the funniest thing is that...she is not just banging this guy alone! great! she has a previous FWB which is a damn male model whom would like to make her his girlfriend, yes, you heard right...unbelievable one more time.

Today she asked me what I thought about her having sex with both guys in the same week. I said that doing that makes her a slut in my opinion but that if she really wants to, its her choice. She says that it makes her feel guilty because the guy who's a model wants to make her his gf and he's been pretty persistent with this now that she seems distant because she is having sex with her salsa teacher, and of course, she has not said a word about this to him.

So here it is, a damn mere HB6 who has many good looking dudes wanting from bang her to make her their gf, who is also having sex with her salsa teacher (see? a guy with status that bangs a 6...another proof guys are desperate) while deciding if she should tell her previous FWB (which is a ****ing model) that she's now ****ing another dude...
isnt it nice? isnt it beautiful? THE POWER OF VAGINA, ANY VAGINA!

Sometimes when I see things like this I would just destroy the whole Earth... lol...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you know that all of what she's saying is true?
 

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I wonder how bad it got, long long ago prior to the victorian or ?? age when woman had to cover everything up and slut shaming was rampant.
 

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Bokanovsky said:
How do you know that all of what she's saying is true?

because we're pretty close friends, we go to salsa lessons together and I know both guys....its jus... sad :(

Besides I have another female friend who is a HB6.5 and the same applies for her...dozens of guys..dozens of relationships from FWB...semi boyfriends...boyfriends...
we could say that they just have almost all the options they wish while we men...
 

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That's how it is, man, you can't change the way of the world. All you can change is the way you see it and act in a given situation. As long as there are desperate men, an HB1 that is overweight will have chasers.

Forget about those guys, just worry about what is relevant to your world.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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VladPatton said:
That's how it is, man, you can't change the way of the world. All you can change is the way you see it and act in a given situation. As long as there are desperate men, an HB1 that is overweight will have chasers.

Forget about those guys, just worry about what is relevant to your world.

So true. If you worry about what other people are doing too much, you'll give yourself a nose bleed. Smash your birds, laugh hard, eat well, work efficiently and be happy.
 

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Men wanting to bang her does not increase her value, quite the opposite.

The girlfriend line is probably BS, I mean what does that even mean? All it means is he wants to hit it a couple times, c'mon man.

Sounds to me like this girl has a major HO vibe and everyone is picking up on it.

Why tell her it's slutty if you want to hit it too? What are you here for? Your here to get laid right? So why tell her it's slutty? Now she knows you think poorly of her and she wont bang you.

With slutty girls you have to promote sex is cool. ALL SEX IS COOL. Tell her you think it's cool to love and be free. Tell her that the world should love more. Then bang her MAN! Go buy a tie dye shirt and play the role man!
 

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I agree with all this.

The only caveat is when a chick tells you about HER sex life (ie who she banged/is banging/wants to bang), that is a sign of friendzone.

A chick that wants to F you generally won't tell you about the othe plates she's F-ing.

SgtSplacker said:
Men wanting to bang her does not increase her value, quite the opposite.

The girlfriend line is probably BS, I mean what does that even mean? All it means is he wants to hit it a couple times, c'mon man.

Sounds to me like this girl has a major HO vibe and everyone is picking up on it.

Why tell her it's slutty if you want to hit it too? What are you here for? Your here to get laid right? So why tell her it's slutty? Now she knows you think poorly of her and she wont bang you.

With slutty girls you have to promote sex is cool. ALL SEX IS COOL. Tell her you think it's cool to love and be free. Tell her that the world should love more. Then bang her MAN! Go buy a tie dye shirt and play the role man!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tictac said:
If you have sex with two women in the same week, are you a slut?
yeah stop the mangina bull****.

And btw, I dont want to bang her, she's just my friend, and as I said, I do not even find her cute, thats why Im so surprised so many guys would like to bang her , make her their girlfriend etc. (she lets me see wher texts exchanges with guys so I can confirm they hit on her etc)

And the male model that would like to make her his gf is not faking it. They've been FWB for a year on and off, and now he's getting feelings, treating her better, buying her stuff... calling her more often etc etc. what is making her distant by the way, and well, she's banging another dude now, this also contributes to it.

AND, another funy thing is that...she asks me sometimes why I do not find her attractive, why I do not try to hit on her, and that , in short, she finds it strange that I dont want to have sex with her. LMAO! and I always tease her and tell her that she has zero boobs and is too short for me among other things, but she doesnt fully believe it, hahahah.
From her point of view, we have similar attractiveness ...this makes me laugh my ass off everytime. But I undestand it since she has sex with guys way higher in sexual value than her.

For the ones that said that she sends the HO vibe, I would not say so, quite the opposite, she looks like a small kid + shy girl.
 

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You can go where the situation is reversed, but you can't be lazy or a cheapskate and do it. It costs say, 3k, but then you can take your pick of thousands of beautiful women, some of whom you can get to pay you 20k a year, for 6 years. :) All it takes is a couple of school loans. You don't have to go to school if you don't want any more loans. You can lay your hands on $18,000 in 8 months. You wont owe anything on it for another 10+ months. Meanwhile, she's working for you.
 

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Your opinion of what is a "HB6.5" isn't the same as another man. One man's meat is another poison. BTW, post a pic of this girl so we can have a clue what you're talking about. Something tells me you'll post a fake pic but whatever.
 

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El Payaso said:
Your opinion of what is a "HB6.5" isn't the same as another man. One man's meat is another poison. BTW, post a pic of this girl so we can have a clue what you're talking about. Something tells me you'll post a fake pic but whatever.

Of course Im not gonna post a picture of a friend of mine here, what the heck?
anyway, HB6 looks pretty much like:
http://melodyfairitale.files.wordpress.com/2012/06/pb101889.jpg


She's 5' 4", no boobs, green eyes.
 
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