The post that changed my ways.

[Oxide]

So...bump years later.

Hate to admit but i've become quite a push push push guy over the last couple of years. This post settles thing a lot back into place, now to bring up the characteristics in me that others like me for, and to avoid the "shoulds". :rockon:

 

[Oxide]

Bump and This should Really be a sticky, one of the fundamental pillars of attraction dynamics explained perfectly.



I'll tell you why this matters. Focus too much on thinking a bigger bank account or a bigger condo will get you a girl ( like those after college start to think) and you'll fvck yourself. I have been driving myself crazy thinking I need to earn more to keep up with these girls in south florida. Now I understand I was playing off golddiggers desires mistaking them for attraction. In reality have I been more friendly and flirty and less demanding ( we all conjure up excuses why a hot girl should sleep with us) I'd have a lot more fun, sex and health.