Okay i just got out of a LTR - 1 year. I feel like i loved the girl, but unfortunately treated her like trash and cheated and she worshipped the ground i walk on. So i recently dumped her so i could get this horrible relationship over with. While she was perfect in almost every respect, she just wasnt a hot girl. I mean, once she dated me she dyed her hair blonde and joined a sorority, but that still wasnt cutting it in my mind at the time. once we broke up she started seeing another dude of my same culture/ethnicity, which represents maybe 50 kids in a uni of 20k. She explained how he was just like me and she was moving on. i was like wtf i honestly expected her to wait around while I hooked up with other girls and then decided to come back to her. so i told her i wanted her back, but now she apparently has strong feelings for this dude. wtf hes basically a ****ty version of me except hes more focused on his studies, what a douche. so now i need to get her back. the problem is we have such bad history, but when i think about it, shes the only girl i want to be with. but now she wants space to grow and basically explore this relationship which stemmed from him being similar to me.
any suggestions on how to fix this? i can treat this girl right, i just need to get her back to me. the problem is that he is really nice guy and i think after a year of my **** she wont leave him purely because he puts her on a pedestal. im soo pissed too none of this would have happened, if i didnt get all ****y and think i could go jock a bunch of hotter girls, while my good girl waited behind for me.
and dont judge too harshely iv made mistakes, but im past all the immature **** i put her through. i just dont want to lose her to this ****. The worst part about this is that she was really special and unique at first, now shes just like generic and acts like every other sorority girl and thats all everyone else sees.
go ahead with all the comments, i need some perspective
any suggestions on how to fix this? i can treat this girl right, i just need to get her back to me. the problem is that he is really nice guy and i think after a year of my **** she wont leave him purely because he puts her on a pedestal. im soo pissed too none of this would have happened, if i didnt get all ****y and think i could go jock a bunch of hotter girls, while my good girl waited behind for me.
and dont judge too harshely iv made mistakes, but im past all the immature **** i put her through. i just dont want to lose her to this ****. The worst part about this is that she was really special and unique at first, now shes just like generic and acts like every other sorority girl and thats all everyone else sees.
go ahead with all the comments, i need some perspective