"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Porn Star...=STUD = watch and learn

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if your a curious guy like me---and RAFC like I you have seen a Porn movie....i used to always be fascinated by the girl and what she's doing for in this world the guy is only a prop b/c we want to picture us banging the girl...well recentely (in a non gay manner) I started paying attention to the guy...what kind of body structure (usally muscular or fit) what's his expression (usually a I'm the sh!t i got something to do focused look) I then asked a girl i knew i got LJBF'd about porn...and i asked would she ever do a guy in porn....

Keep n mind she's a normal girl not a slut..she said "if it's just sex O HELL yea" her friend also expressed her agreement with her friend....then i asked "is it his package?" "yeah but it's not just that...the porn guys i've seen are just masculin and STuds" Friend: "girl your giving me shivers!!" they laugh then walk away

so what i'm asking is do you think you could learn attitude, masculinity, and approach from these guys just by reading there expressions and movements on a women in a movie?? has the porn stud moves ever benefit you??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
if your a curious guy like me---and RAFC like I you have seen a Porn movie....i used to always be fascinated by the girl and what she's doing for in this world the guy is only a prop b/c we want to picture us banging the girl...well recentely (in a non gay manner) I started paying attention to the guy...what kind of body structure (usally muscular or fit) what's his expression (usually a I'm the sh!t i got something to do focused look) I then asked a girl i knew i got LJBF'd about porn...and i asked would she ever do a guy in porn....

Keep n mind she's a normal girl not a slut..she said "if it's just sex O HELL yea" her friend also expressed her agreement with her friend....then i asked "is it his package?" "yeah but it's not just that...the porn guys i've seen are just masculin and STuds" Friend: "girl your giving me shivers!!" they laugh then walk away

so what i'm asking is do you think you could learn attitude, masculinity, and approach from these guys just by reading there expressions and movements on a women in a movie?? has the porn stud moves ever benefit you??
yeah good idea BUT its hard to get the girl if u are too masculine tried it didn't work. In sex however i like to be firm and masculine
 

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Get a grip back on reality, porn might relate to sexual activity in the bedroom or other private places but I doubt it would work anywhere outside of sexual context.
 

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I learned everything I knoe about sex from pornos and it works grandly, however I wouldnt recommend acting like that outside the bed.
 

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Stuff you see in porns will only give you neat ideas for the bedroom. If you talk about porn for more then a second around girls they tend to think you are a perverted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i've read recently that the average woman prefers a male physique more like tom cruise, as opposed to someone like vin diesel.

what avg men think is the perfect muscle build, is usually 15-20lbs too muscular compared to what the avg woman thinks is the perfect build.

that's not to say that you can't have success with a vin diesel build. it just puts it into perspective.

there may also be different niches of women that prefer different builds.

moral: find what works for you. if you're not getting results, find out why and change it.
 

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the Average woman prefers the tom cruise body because it would blend along with their average self.
the Rare stunning women HB8&9 prefer the vinn diesel body because they know what they want.
 

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You want to see what the best body is? Go here:


http://www.hunkmania.com/male-strippers.htm


Male Strippers' job is to get women horny. Consider most of them cannot strip any better than you and look at their faces... Do they look hot? Ok, maybe 20-30% is really beautiful, but some of them are 5s or so (considering just the face). What gets women horny? Their bodies are EXACTLY what a woman lusts for, since it's their job to make women lust for them.
 

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never learn sex techniques from a pornstar

and there are much better people to follow into the footsteps of, rather than male pornstars

most of the guys you see in porn have money to waste on girls, and desperate girls who are in desperate need of that money
 

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Originally posted by Adone
You want to see what the best body is? Go here:


http://www.hunkmania.com/male-strippers.htm


Male Strippers' job is to get women horny. Consider most of them cannot strip any better than you and look at their faces... Do they look hot? Ok, maybe 20-30% is really beautiful, but some of them are 5s or so (considering just the face). What gets women horny? Their bodies are EXACTLY what a woman lusts for, since it's their job to make women lust for them.
I checked those guys out and yes they are the ALPHA elitei garuntee any of those guys could have a girl in bed in minutes (seriously)

I think you could learn alot about those guys as far as attitude goes..Sure the movies are fake but the "im going for what i want" attitude seems to turn on girls..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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These women are getting paid to get it on. They dont really have a choice who its with, at least not until they make a name for themselves.

These dudes get paid 100 bucks for every thousand the woman gets. Most of them are in good physical shape, but they look like a messed up Ken Doll aged 10 years.

If you can learn anything. Maybe its positions, lol. Other that that.. these guys probably load up on Viagra so they can keep it up for extended periods of times. Plus they dont show the outtake, and the repositioning done in many of these "pron's"

Maybe you could get a chick who loves porno.. she might fall for that bs. But any other girl will care more about what car you drive, or how smooth you talk, rather than your porno style :D
 

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
I checked those guys out and yes they are the ALPHA elitei garuntee any of those guys could have a girl in bed in minutes (seriously)

I actually don't know much about strippers, I was just referring to their bodies, which are supposed to be the best look-wise. I suppose you must be right, though.
 

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Errr are you watching porn for guys or porn for chicks? There is a difference you know...

Guys in guy porn haven't got a clue about how to do a chick right for asfar as i've seen. If a woman tells you she would like to be done that way she is either a minority, lieing or doesn't know any better!

If you really want to know how to give a chick a wild ride you should read some more specilised books perhaps. Better movies to learn from would actually be erotic movies. But not pure chick porn because chick porn is way to soft and innocent and relies more on some phantastic fairy tale story than it does on the actual sex.

The only thing guy porn is gonna teach you is how to bang a chick so hard she won't be able to walk for 3 days. That may sound great to you, but trust me when i say it's not the best way to do her. You want to have her feeling more the next day, not feeling soar.

Most women, except for the really dominant ones, want to be dominated in the sack. That doesn't mean **** or anything like that, it means you are the boss, you do her like you wanna do her, don't ask for anything and just do it. Being a bit rough is good BUT you can be rough in a suave way. Basically start slow and finish strong. Don't go for a lot of positions that put her in control. Try to always control the motion of the ocean.

Being to gentle won't put enough fire in to it, but being to rough will kill the mood. Building it up just right is the key. Most women have a plateau of excitement before they come to a climax (that's why a lot of women don't get orgasms), so your job is to break that plateau by upping the action. Go to fast you might make her feel uncomfortable, go to slow you will hit the plateau and the longer she stays there the harder it is to get her over it. Fricktion numbs the senses ;-).

But in the end every women is just a little bit different. Some are very comfortable about sex and will want to be talked dirty do right off the bat. Others will be less secure about it and have to be warmed up properly before turning up the fire. Just pay attention to her and you should be able to tell wether you should slow down or step up.
 
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