"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Pool party....

marines_hooorah

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End of the year and summeres coming. That means one thing, pool parties, and plenty of bikinied (if thats a word) horny girls. I've always had a lot of trouble pulling off pick up in pools tho. I think the main problem is that girls kinda got theor shield up, cause theyre prancing around half naked and all. So here it is....please post all your tips here and maybe we can help out some noobs like me.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mpimpin

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excellent kino time. Either throw them in or pretend like your gonna throw them in and just grab em etc.
 

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Go for the ones who show the most interest.As soon as you catch em lookin at ya more than twice,your set.

Mr.pimpin that only works for girls he knows.He is talking about picking up girls.If your there to pick up girls,throwing or pretending to throw them is an idiot move.

What i did before is just started off with

Hey what school do you girls go to(are from)

It is THAT simple.You dont need no mystery method opinion openers or nothin.Ive done that opener plenty of times with success.
 

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619joe said:
Go for the ones who show the most interest.As soon as you catch em lookin at ya more than twice,your set.

Mr.pimpin that only works for girls he knows.He is talking about picking up girls.If your there to pick up girls,throwing or pretending to throw them is an idiot move.

What i did before is just started off with

Hey what school do you girls go to(are from)

It is THAT simple.You dont need no mystery method opinion openers or nothin.Ive done that opener plenty of times with success.
Does something as simple as this really work all the time? I guess Ill have give it a try.

And its ok if this has to do with girls that u know or girls that you dont know. This is kinda like an all around thing.
 

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any more ideas?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Triple T

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marines_hooorah said:
any more ideas?
Well once you get yourself known or get more friendly with them and they are comfortable around you, throw them into the pool.
I've done it TONS of times with girls, they usually are like "OMG you are sooo mean!! :p" and then they all try to get me after, chasing me around. haha :up:

If they do gang up on you, just like grab one of them and pull them in with you. Have a little slpash fight if you want.:D
 

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Make sure you are in good shape before you to go a pool party. Lose the flab.

By the way, in the Marines it's "Oorah"...the Army has "Hoorah". You going to boot camp soon or what?
 

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kalash74 said:
Make sure you are in good shape before you to go a pool party. Lose the flab.

By the way, in the Marines it's "Oorah"...the Army has "Hoorah". You going to boot camp soon or what?
You are right in that the marines do say oorah, but the whole US military has kinda adapted hooorah as their war cry. heres a link: http://usmilitary.about.com/b/2006/05/01/origins-of-hoorah-in-the-us-military.htm

Very good that you noticed that tho. Not many people no the difference. I did hooorah cause not many people no about oorah. Did u serve?
 
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