"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So I am in college..... It has started. School is now back in and im on top of my game. I have been getting new girls every day. Work, class, parties, bars I have been putting in work.

The only thing is I have been having a little trouble getting the real nice girls: beautiful, Smart, funny, has morals lol. I have kinda got a reputation of being a player. people call me the van wilder of my school. So how do i kinda get away from this reputation when i get with these nicer girls?

I will be about to close the deal and they tell me **** like my friends tell me not to hook up with you cause your a player and what not. Im really not. I am a nice guy that just hooks up with a lot of girls
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Say you have been with so many women because you havnt found the right one yet, you havnt found one that matches you, you are looking for a relationship with someone special, ect.

If she says "maybe that girl you are looking for is me" then agree with her but if she doesnt say anything like that you can easily qualify her by going ahead and saying "maybe that girl will be you" with a smile.

Usually saying something like that is afc and not the way to create attraction but in this case its necessary to make her feel special. She knows you have been with a lot of girls, you need to make her feel like she is different from all the rest you have been with.
 
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question...what is your response to this charge of being a player? how do you respond?
 
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when a girl calls me a player I would respond with

"Yea Iv dated around but I have no problem being with one women if she is the right one."

If they are being agressive about the question and call b.s. then I say

"I didnt know there was a limit on how many women you can meet." but in a joking way.

and consider her pressing the question as a red flag, she may be too much to deal with.
 
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Warrior74 said:
question...what is your response to this charge of being a player? how do you respond?
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hahaha I usully tell them something like i havent found the right one or I say that I don't like to cheating so whenever i think about dating a girl I ask myself would i cheat on this girl. I tell her usually its yes because i havent found anyone special...... then she smiles and punches me and calls me a butthead or something like that. I usually enjoy the response but I guess i just dont really care too much to be called a player. I don't know why that bothers me. I mean maybe i am and maybe i define player differently than others
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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every player needs to start somewhere. you cannot expect to run the day you were born. you gotta crawl, then you got to walk and then finally u can run.

you got to take those women step by step.

god knows how many uglies i boned before my first hot girlfriend
 
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