"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"The Player " on Askmen.com Coincidence?

DJDamage

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On askmen, every other tuesday there is this guy calls himself "the player" that posts stuff on how to pick up women. Its free for the first day but if you want to read the articles the next day it cost money(not worth paying). I find the stuff he talks about are actually well put.

The only thing is that this week article is titled " The Player's Boot Camps: Camp Confidence" and it sounds and looks to be parallel to the DJ Bootcamp. Is this just a small coinsidence or nothing is original these days and everyone ripping everyone off??

http://www.askmen.com/love/player_150/152_love_games.html
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The term 'Bootcamp' as it applies to DJ's was coined here I think. I remember Tyler Durden posting Homework assignments here and then someone ...a few months later started bootcamp assignments.
 

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I use to read "The Player's" work years ago when his articles were all free. I don't know if the whole Bootcamp idea came about origonally on this site or fastseduction101.com.

I will say that one of his best pieces of work was "The Mission" which desribed the Wingman/Wing Commander/Squadron aspects in great detail. If his work still has that level of quality, it's no surprise he's charging for his articles.
 

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There is abso-tively nothing usefull whatsoever at

http://ThePlayersguide.com

I'm a big fan of AskMen.com, Lots of decent info on various topics but waaay too much crizap on TPG. You get some corny sexual positions ads for the "half -kicked donkey" or some lame-brained drivel of no importance. Oh, and for paying suckers you get your own li'l black book page!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah his stuff was what I first discovered 3 years ago that changed my life and i became very familiar with all the PUA stuff

when I first came to this site early last year, I found that most of the stuff was the same as becomeaplayer.com but more well-rounded and more focused on becoming a better person


but just so people know, people who have bought his book said it's **** and not worth buying. save your money
 
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