Milano
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This post is for all of you lone wolves out there/late bloomers, social rejects etc...
Incoming wall of text:
Some of us arrived late to the party, I myself lost my virginity at 26.
2 years later it is still an open wound, something which the brain or my **** is having issues with understanding, forgiving. Why did this young man play video games and hated human beings for so long? He had sexual desires, insane desires that he just wanked away to porn sites while flushing his dreams away in World of Warcraft. I am 28, I feel like I wasted my best years and the pain doesnt seem to ever fade away, nor does it deserve to?
What can I blame, by not drinking within a strong drinking culture in Northern Europe? An alcoholic father? Mother died of cancer in a delicate period of time? Whatever the toxic mix might be, here I am, and there you are. Maybe we share some of the same stories.
With my little experience in women and where I come from, I also get the feeling that all of them want the jacked guy in the Mercedes if they can choose, (just like we want the fitness models, porn stars, ass models etc? No, its way past that, most guys just want a decent cute girl) and even though they can not tie him down, they still want to live in hope that he will **** them and perhaps give them a reply back on snapchat next week. You see? The alphas are playing their games with the girls who are then playing the game on us guys who "just dont get it" yet. How can it be that we are chasing something SO AVERAGE on the market, but it seems like it is so valuable and scarce? WTF HAPPENED?
They get to taste the forbidden fruit, the bad boys, alphas, call it what you want. Ah yes, ofc. So now they think they have a chance and that 90% (number not critical just an example) of the other guys are losers?
From the friends I have, and what I have seen in my life, social status and/or having a fantastic physique is so critical to getting the ABUNDANCE we all want. If you are a young man reading this, you must know that this is VERY IMPORTANT if you want to reach the top, be the guy the woman chase. Not only must you join the social status elite, it is CRITICAL that you take LOTS OF PICTURES of all moments that puts you ahead of the herd. Tinder? Hello! Obviously.
DO NOT walk the path of the lonely wolf, I repeat, DO NOT walk the path of the lonely wolf. IT IS NOT WORTH THE PAIN of being a stubborn hater. It was easy for me ending up there, and I took pride in it, because it meant that I was unique and stronger than the rest. MISTAKE. A woman does not want to engage with a lower status man, that does not look good in the eyes of her friends, which means a huge deal. As a man you might want to believe otherwise but a woman is dependent on her group, and so you should think.
Its cool to walk your own path, but by excelling in a big group is what turns women on tremendously. Oh the competition! This is why an education can give you an upper hand, a few years can give you more status and respect, in contrary to what the pick up industry wants you to know. Does this mean that if you are an engineer you get ***** thrown at you? DUH, ofc not. But everything helps! You want to beat the competition, stand out, be a winner as Corey Wayne would say.
This has been my plan for several months, as a struggling man through depression and suicidal thoughts for nearly a decade, FOCUS on what will build you up as a man, NOT the women. If you get stronger, you WILL get better girls, but ONLY if you get stronger! There is no other way. Take comfort in the everyday rituals of a mad man working furiously towards his goals through daily routines like taking his pain to the church by lifting them weights, eating healthy every day, getting your proteins, no masturbating (specially if you are depressed), studying your craft or whatever will give you that edge you want and need, career-wise, spiritually etc.
Everyone has the same problem here all the time, me included. One girl, one special girl, WTF DID I DO!? Most of us are in a low status position where the work to attract a certain quality woman feels almost impossible, and one cant get the volume that is needed to get as good as you want! What also hurts is when you feel you are so close, but still so far away. Or how about when you get a fine woman home, which happens so rarely for some of us that you freak out and the sex could have been a lot better? Well, she might not give you another chance! It hurts like a betch, and you feel that your past traumas come back to haunt you like the plague and you can never get on top.
Now I know the idea some of you might get, "you cant do all this just for the girls". Well, its not all about the girls, its for self respect, instinct, the will to win, at least for me. I want to conquer in what I was sh1t at, and I will get to where I want to be or die trying, and I will let you know in a few years when I am there, plan involves another country etc, and I will share my wisdom in my 30s when I get there. Like many of you pros I will probably also realize that it was not the sex that was the prize, it was who you became in the process, but its an individual journey for all of us, lets see what we find
Just wanted to write this before I went to bed, cleanse rinse repeat. New day tomorrow, lets get to work guys, destroy the competition, be the best **** the rest. Soon there will be a new sunriiise mothafocka.
To all of you depressed lonely peeps out there, I love you, we are gonna make it, use the pain as fuel bros.
Incoming wall of text:
Some of us arrived late to the party, I myself lost my virginity at 26.
2 years later it is still an open wound, something which the brain or my **** is having issues with understanding, forgiving. Why did this young man play video games and hated human beings for so long? He had sexual desires, insane desires that he just wanked away to porn sites while flushing his dreams away in World of Warcraft. I am 28, I feel like I wasted my best years and the pain doesnt seem to ever fade away, nor does it deserve to?
What can I blame, by not drinking within a strong drinking culture in Northern Europe? An alcoholic father? Mother died of cancer in a delicate period of time? Whatever the toxic mix might be, here I am, and there you are. Maybe we share some of the same stories.
With my little experience in women and where I come from, I also get the feeling that all of them want the jacked guy in the Mercedes if they can choose, (just like we want the fitness models, porn stars, ass models etc? No, its way past that, most guys just want a decent cute girl) and even though they can not tie him down, they still want to live in hope that he will **** them and perhaps give them a reply back on snapchat next week. You see? The alphas are playing their games with the girls who are then playing the game on us guys who "just dont get it" yet. How can it be that we are chasing something SO AVERAGE on the market, but it seems like it is so valuable and scarce? WTF HAPPENED?
They get to taste the forbidden fruit, the bad boys, alphas, call it what you want. Ah yes, ofc. So now they think they have a chance and that 90% (number not critical just an example) of the other guys are losers?
From the friends I have, and what I have seen in my life, social status and/or having a fantastic physique is so critical to getting the ABUNDANCE we all want. If you are a young man reading this, you must know that this is VERY IMPORTANT if you want to reach the top, be the guy the woman chase. Not only must you join the social status elite, it is CRITICAL that you take LOTS OF PICTURES of all moments that puts you ahead of the herd. Tinder? Hello! Obviously.
DO NOT walk the path of the lonely wolf, I repeat, DO NOT walk the path of the lonely wolf. IT IS NOT WORTH THE PAIN of being a stubborn hater. It was easy for me ending up there, and I took pride in it, because it meant that I was unique and stronger than the rest. MISTAKE. A woman does not want to engage with a lower status man, that does not look good in the eyes of her friends, which means a huge deal. As a man you might want to believe otherwise but a woman is dependent on her group, and so you should think.
Its cool to walk your own path, but by excelling in a big group is what turns women on tremendously. Oh the competition! This is why an education can give you an upper hand, a few years can give you more status and respect, in contrary to what the pick up industry wants you to know. Does this mean that if you are an engineer you get ***** thrown at you? DUH, ofc not. But everything helps! You want to beat the competition, stand out, be a winner as Corey Wayne would say.
This has been my plan for several months, as a struggling man through depression and suicidal thoughts for nearly a decade, FOCUS on what will build you up as a man, NOT the women. If you get stronger, you WILL get better girls, but ONLY if you get stronger! There is no other way. Take comfort in the everyday rituals of a mad man working furiously towards his goals through daily routines like taking his pain to the church by lifting them weights, eating healthy every day, getting your proteins, no masturbating (specially if you are depressed), studying your craft or whatever will give you that edge you want and need, career-wise, spiritually etc.
Everyone has the same problem here all the time, me included. One girl, one special girl, WTF DID I DO!? Most of us are in a low status position where the work to attract a certain quality woman feels almost impossible, and one cant get the volume that is needed to get as good as you want! What also hurts is when you feel you are so close, but still so far away. Or how about when you get a fine woman home, which happens so rarely for some of us that you freak out and the sex could have been a lot better? Well, she might not give you another chance! It hurts like a betch, and you feel that your past traumas come back to haunt you like the plague and you can never get on top.
Now I know the idea some of you might get, "you cant do all this just for the girls". Well, its not all about the girls, its for self respect, instinct, the will to win, at least for me. I want to conquer in what I was sh1t at, and I will get to where I want to be or die trying, and I will let you know in a few years when I am there, plan involves another country etc, and I will share my wisdom in my 30s when I get there. Like many of you pros I will probably also realize that it was not the sex that was the prize, it was who you became in the process, but its an individual journey for all of us, lets see what we find
Just wanted to write this before I went to bed, cleanse rinse repeat. New day tomorrow, lets get to work guys, destroy the competition, be the best **** the rest. Soon there will be a new sunriiise mothafocka.
To all of you depressed lonely peeps out there, I love you, we are gonna make it, use the pain as fuel bros.
