"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Plan of Life

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Hi to all of the DJ's out there, I have been following for quite some time now and I'd like to share the fruits of my labor with you.

From what I have seen posted around about girls, you could draw several basic trends about girls and attraction:
1) Flirting is a game, do not take it to the heart

2) Girls are humans too, but their feelings predominate over their logic

3) We are all imperfect, so don't be afraid of your drawbacks but have some stuff that you can show off

what all of these trends are pointing to is that the true entity of being a DJ lies within yourself, in a way how you see and conduct your life.
Being a DJ is not only about being a happy freak with a strong desire to get girls. A DJ is a man who has his plan for life no matter what happens to him; that is he sets his goals high and he strives toward them without being afraid that something can stop because nobody can.
The power of a DJ lies within himself, it is inside. The trend goes like this: if you wake up every morning ready to "conquer the world" then you will have enough enthusiasm and drive to get your stuff done and conquer girls hearts because girls expect something new from men in their life. I have field tested this theory for a long time now and it has proven itself, that the more worked up you are with your goals/dreams, the more you successful you will be at approaching chicks.
Here's the layout of my theory:
1) You need to at least pretend every morning you get up that you are ready to conquer the world and give yourself some inspiration by doing something in the mornings that you really like (jogging, listening to music, walking in the park, or just making yourself a killer breakfast).
2) Then as you get that peace of happiness for yourself that day you go outside and do your chores. Now note that because your mood is up that day (due to the new attitude and some fascinating activity) your confidence grows as well as your desire to act.
3) Pick a time, spontaneously of course, to take some time of your chores (if you are at work use a lunch break for that, in college use the time between classes) and go out and meet random women. Talk to them, just about anything - the world, movies, sex, sports as long as the topic is not depressing. Then at the moment of the highest point in your conversation with your women, ask them for a phone number (this raises the chances because you are hard to resist at that point).
4) If every day you do this with at least several women, you are almost guaranteed to get at least 1 phone number a day and that's about 5 to 7 phone numbers a week. I am telling such layout will get you laid, as long as you don't give up.

For all those who dare to try this, props to you

"Making a goal is 3/4 the way to your aim" Rob F
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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khanboy

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Good stuff

Everyone listen to this man, he knows what he's talking about.

Good stuff,
khanboy
 

Don of Truth

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Good post

The truth can be pretty simple.

By the way, it's good to begin by "pretending" after you wake up but....you can get to a point where you don't have to pretend anymore. You just know.
 
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Wisdom coming from a 18 year old!
 
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