Hey all, I'm a long time lurker that finally decided to post. I want all of you to have fair warning of the implications of not being a DJ. The results can be catastrophic. I also wouldn't mind some advice on how to avoid similiar situations in the future. So basically here is my story. I've been pretty good for the last couple of year applying many of the tools, tip, techniques that DJ is all about. I met this girl about 2 months ago through a mutual friend. Several problems right of the bat, she's a traveling nurse who's leaving at the end of summer, pissed at her last BF, and is basically a party girl. I started everything of right. Kept conversations light, focussed on her. Most of the "dates" we went on were action dates, bike rides, going dancing, etc. I would wait till she called me to hang out all that stuff. The something stupid happened. I decided I really liked this girl and all of a sudden my game went down the sh^tter. Before all the flaming starts, I don't get his way with many women. In my life I would guess only 2 have had this effect on me. I dropped all of my plan Bs, Cs, and Ds. I started calling her, I wouldn't set up situations where she knew other women were interested in me. Guess what, you better believe she smelled loser right away. You can guess what happened next.
Let this be a lesson to all of you. Stick to your game, keep them guessing when you'll have time for them. Keep them wondering how many more you have in the stable. Don't let your emotions get in the way of rational thought. As Doc Love said, wait for them to tell you there feelings before you even give a hint of yours.
Now to the part that I've been thinking about for a while. Maybe there is a DJ support group like a 12 step program. You know when you're on your game and your head says don't call but your emotions say do call. For some of us aspiring DJs it might not be a bad idea to have a sponsor to set you straight, before you fall of the wagon so to speak. Also, any advice you guys may have about beating down your emotional stupidity would greatly be appreciated.
-Homey
Let this be a lesson to all of you. Stick to your game, keep them guessing when you'll have time for them. Keep them wondering how many more you have in the stable. Don't let your emotions get in the way of rational thought. As Doc Love said, wait for them to tell you there feelings before you even give a hint of yours.
Now to the part that I've been thinking about for a while. Maybe there is a DJ support group like a 12 step program. You know when you're on your game and your head says don't call but your emotions say do call. For some of us aspiring DJs it might not be a bad idea to have a sponsor to set you straight, before you fall of the wagon so to speak. Also, any advice you guys may have about beating down your emotional stupidity would greatly be appreciated.
-Homey