"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bishopdonjuan

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Not to say I'm a pimp just wanted a good title to get you all in and help me out with this situation.

Tomorrow I am throwing a party. Here is the roster for the party. My ex, who I broke up with only 2 weeks ago and found out about the party, my "new girl" who I was with while I was with my ex and thinks we are about to get together, a girl from work that I flirt with a tremendous amount and could possibly turn into more after the party, and a girl from a club last night that I made out with, grabbed titties, ass, and basically I will be guaranteed to **** after the party.

Now my problem obvioulsy is that I don't even want to go to the party now, because I will inevitably hurt someones feelings. The girl from the club, as well as the new girl definently will be expecting all of my attention (kissing and all) and the dance floor, and the ex will be there to create tension and possibly stir **** up, and then the flirt will just piss the others off because she's gonna vie for my attention as well. Is there anyway to juggle this properly or decide properly?

I find myself in these type of situations often and I always end up hurting someone.

NEED HELP
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xblitz44x

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You need to step back and decide who you really care about and put them first, not your ego's desire to get laid. If you think with your dyck you're going to fvck up a lot of people just to get a nut.

Personally, the ex is an ex. So you don't have to worry too much about that. Be nice, and treat her with respect, but don't go out of your way to hide shyt. The rest depends on what you want. If you plan on dating the current girl, and care about her at all, then you'll forget about the chipie you met the night before. She's not going to be as hurt as the girl you're dating now. Let her have some fun, introduce her to some friends and let them talk to her.

Good luck, let us know what happens.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Do what you want aslong as it does not in anyway badly affect another human being. That is one of the golden rules of life.

Have fun, be true to yourself and do what feels right for you.
 

Julian

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Dude whatever u do dont let ur ex come, she will fucc up your game hardcore trust me and the worst thing that could happen is she seduces you and u fall into old ways and end up with her then get dropped again after she knows shes had you.
 
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1. Yo not right, calling on the pimp god to bring you other pimps to talk too for no real reason.

2. Since you asked for a pimps advice then your going to get it from a pimpin perspective, not a square outlook.

3. A pimp has what is called a bottom bytch. She is your main ho. Choose one for that position. The other ho's are now your potential wife-inlaws. They should know their position in the heirarchy of things.

4. What I'm saying is since your not very good at this game and YOU create these situations so that YOU can have drama so that YOU feel like such a player is that choose the one you want and be dam with the others feelings. If your game is tight they will wait in line for their chance.

5. The last persons feelings you should even be thinking about is the ex ho's. The next one is the girl at work...how many times do I have to tell you knuckle heads not to hunt at work!!! That's the dumbest thing you could EVER do. I hate this crap almost as much as I hate gay ****. It's weak. Hunt somewhere else.

so she is off your care lists.

6. Now the ho from da club...if you haven't boned her yet then who the fawk cares...you shouldn't since you go by a real pimps name Bishop Magic Don Juan and you Said "the pimp game"

7. Forgive me for calling your women ho's but that is how they are reffered to in "the pimp game".

8. Now since your new one is breaking you off pvssy and money she is the only one you should be concerned with. Maybe you can have her talk to the others about joining your team. Thats how it's done in "the pimp game" Your ho is your best recruiter.

But you still need to lay your game down strong in your new ho's mind. Make sure when the potentials come up in there they see who your actually with and how this shyt really is.

Now if you had asked for some square advice I would of giving you a whole different outlook on this situation but the results would still be the same:

a) you enjoy the drama
b) you create this drama yourself by inviting them all
c) your game is wacked right now due to your ego getting in your way like this...you also said this keeps happening. You must be getting some kind of kudo's for re-creating these situations where you keep hurting Others feelings.
d) a real playa is smooth as silk, not fumbling in the dark and making errors like this....so fix what's wrong inside of your head
e) it's all about YOUR ego. You want the attention and having women fighting over YOU and making a scene. That is why you posted this for YOUR attention.

Now I hope my words are not too harsh I just call it as I see it.

good luck on fixing YOU and your problem.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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