She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Are you replying to me or the OP, sir? Did you not recently strongly protest a similar story you claimed was fake and stereotyping? It's always good to be consistent (sarcasm)FairShake said:Wtf, just let it go.
http://theblacksphere.net/2013/10/whos-baby-daddy/FairShake
Wtf, just let it go.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Watch Jaylan and his like try to enforce a double standard at sosuave, condoning one fake story intended to negatively sterotype while condemning another. Their efforts are succeeding too, the similar thread gets locked and this one doesn't. That's been their main goal all along. Suddenly the story's site source can make it okay? That has never been the case any other time.YawataNoKami said:http://theblacksphere.net/2013/10/whos-baby-daddy/
Wtf , just let it go.............
The OP.Stagger Lee said:Are you replying to me or the OP, sir?