"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Piece of Paper

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This is a way of improving the odds for you during a date.

You're on a date and things are not going well.. you're brain is frozen and you cannot think of any of the tips you have learned.

Don't worry though you make a quick trip to the toilets and take out a piece of paper where you have written some tips that are important to you. You then see if you are doing something right or wrong or what you can improve on.

Some examples:
- Body language
- Be alpha
- Treat her like little girl
- Lead her
- Don't care about the outcome

etc etc they're just some off the top of my head that I like but everybody has their favourite tips.

After many of my dates I checked to see where I went wrong. This was after the date so if you can refresh your mind during the date then it will mean better odds for you to get the girl.


This tip is for novices mainly and people who are forgetful and for people who's brains stop working during dates because of oneitis. Regarding oneitis (after reading SinJesters thread) you could help that too by writing out the names of other girls you like, to keep in mind that there is more than 1 woman in your life!

PS: Don't let anybody see the list! :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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