"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Piece of Paper

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This is a way of improving the odds for you during a date.

You're on a date and things are not going well.. you're brain is frozen and you cannot think of any of the tips you have learned.

Don't worry though you make a quick trip to the toilets and take out a piece of paper where you have written some tips that are important to you. You then see if you are doing something right or wrong or what you can improve on.

Some examples:
- Body language
- Be alpha
- Treat her like little girl
- Lead her
- Don't care about the outcome

etc etc they're just some off the top of my head that I like but everybody has their favourite tips.

After many of my dates I checked to see where I went wrong. This was after the date so if you can refresh your mind during the date then it will mean better odds for you to get the girl.


This tip is for novices mainly and people who are forgetful and for people who's brains stop working during dates because of oneitis. Regarding oneitis (after reading SinJesters thread) you could help that too by writing out the names of other girls you like, to keep in mind that there is more than 1 woman in your life!

PS: Don't let anybody see the list! :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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