"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The perks of playing

ThinWhiteDuke

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Here's some of the free stuff I've received in the last couple of weeks as a reward for flirting with and playing female employees of various establishments:

-Free subs daily for lunch
-Enough quality cologne samples to fill a hefty bag and last me a lifetime
-Free tickets to a pro football game (I'm going this afternoon)
-Discounts on beer at my favorite bar
-50% off my morning Starbucks
-Large bag of protein bar samples from Vitamin Shoppe
-Free desserts at upscale restaurants ("Isn't it your birthday today?")
-Female co-workers baking/cooking me stuff

I love this game!! :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ricky

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Damn you have reversed the tables, it's like you are the hot chick now. I love it!
 

NorPacWolf

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Nice! Are you gaming 7+ gals only or just girls in general? I tend to focus on HB7's and above, but I can see how gaming/flirting with all girls can lead to these types of outcomes.
 

ThinWhiteDuke

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I don't worry about whether or not employees are HB's when I go into these places. My attitude is to just have fun with these employee broads to keep practicing the conversational techniques I've learned. I only use DYD type stuff on female employees because there's no point in getting them sexually aroused when they can't leave with me.

My guess is that they're so bored with their jobs that they really welcome a fun interaction, so they're giving me stuff to keep me coming back in. It's not my intention to get phone numbers or dates with these women since I'm a one-call closer. I'm not interested in cooking dinner at my place for some chick a few days after I meet her in hopes of getting sex. I've been going all or nothing after I meet a woman and that mindset alone is powerful for getting laid the same day/night you meet her.

Like Gunwitch says, "Make the ho say no." It works.
 

Gipper

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Beautiful. Hey man, could you front me some of those cologne samples? I'm afraid the sandwiches will go stale and the beer will go flat.

Just kidding; excellent post however. Reading this stuff brings a smile...

Gipper
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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rosebud

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I have to second this. It kind of suprised me when I first got a "do you want a drink?" from the manager I was chatting up (not interested, just practice) at Wendy's, and now I do my best to be nice (not passive nice) whenever I am talking with a female that is working.
 

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by ThinWhiteDuke
Here's some of the free stuff I've received in the last couple of weeks as a reward for flirting with and playing female employees of various establishments:

-Free subs daily for lunch
-Enough quality cologne samples to fill a hefty bag and last me a lifetime
-Free tickets to a pro football game (I'm going this afternoon)
-Discounts on beer at my favorite bar
-50% off my morning Starbucks
-Large bag of protein bar samples from Vitamin Shoppe
-Free desserts at upscale restaurants ("Isn't it your birthday today?")
-Female co-workers baking/cooking me stuff

I love this game!! :D
Panhandlers get alot of free stuff too... :rolleyes: But, good work anyways.
 

Mongo

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It's these kinds of posts that inspire me more than anything. Turning the tables, TRULY becoming the prize. Like all other DJ revelations, so simple, so profound.
 

SevenOne9

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Its great when other people do crap for you without doing anything.

Glad to know I'm not the only one who's having similar results!

:D
 
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