"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Perils of Perception - Any help?

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Whats up guys, I'm not really new to this forum, just new to posting, but I kinda need some advice. First, an introduction.....i live in Norcal, I have a bunch of hobbies. I like having fun, I like reading, I like being healthy, I like working out, and I like staying active. Anyone wanna hit me up or sarge or anything feel free if ur in the area. I am 16 turning seventeen. Anyways, now for my dilema, if any of you can help........

I would consider myself at least kind of attractive.....I am about 5'8, Azn, Athletically Fit, Have some muscle on me, you know....I am a mesomorph with slight endomorph characteristsss, and Ive been doing pretty fine with females outside of school. I ahve always been shy and reserved before and somewhat out of shape, but I started working on all of those things, and I got no complaints about how I really am right now, except for OCD, but thats a different problem. Anyways...my problem is at school. Ever since freshmen year, I would always be the smart one, you know, the overachiever, the try hard blah blah. You guys know what I have been sayin. Perhaps the girls now, I am a junior, view me as boring, AFC, ect. To add to this my school size is small, with only 100 in my class, whcih adds to the difficulty of opening sets ect, because all fo us know each other kind of wel; and my class is really cliqy. I've read about many articles on high school and stuff, but when I try to open sets sometimes, it just doesnt work in the enviornment. however I will be starting a club. It should be fun, a health and wellness one. Anyways, what are your guys advice. Of, I can't drive, and this school's students live like 30 mins away from me, but hey public transportation.......I really wanna at least get stuff done bfore the end of 06 school yr, because I wanna hang durig sumer. Any help.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Take public transportation to areas where girls hang out. One example would be the mall. You'll meet tons of girls who don't know your social history and then you can work from there.
 
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