"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The "perfect moment"

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"The perfect moment"

Theres no such thing.

"I'll just wait for the perfect moment to approach her"

It'll never come.

"I'll just wait for the perfect moment to ask her out."

She's gonna be banging some jerk by the time your "prefect moment" comes.

Perfectionism can be a beautiful thing- just not when dealing with girls. Unless your a full fledged DJ, most of us n00bs won't be able to tell the difference between a "good" time to do something, and a "bad" time to do something.

So, like someone on this forum once said:

"If your not sure whether you should do something or not....do it!" :D

And besides, girls aren't as picky as most of you guys think (they just need an excuse for you to bang them), so timing yourself to apear smooth is a waste of...time.

-peace-
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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perfect moment exists.. its when you go to girl and shes yours. so before you try you dont know if the moment was perfect or not. you know at the end. so got to try all the time. pzzz
 
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C00Ll, care to explain by what you mean when you say "perfection only comes in moments"???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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he meant exactly what i said
 
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