"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The "perfect moment"

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"The perfect moment"

Theres no such thing.

"I'll just wait for the perfect moment to approach her"

It'll never come.

"I'll just wait for the perfect moment to ask her out."

She's gonna be banging some jerk by the time your "prefect moment" comes.

Perfectionism can be a beautiful thing- just not when dealing with girls. Unless your a full fledged DJ, most of us n00bs won't be able to tell the difference between a "good" time to do something, and a "bad" time to do something.

So, like someone on this forum once said:

"If your not sure whether you should do something or not....do it!" :D

And besides, girls aren't as picky as most of you guys think (they just need an excuse for you to bang them), so timing yourself to apear smooth is a waste of...time.

-peace-
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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perfect moment exists.. its when you go to girl and shes yours. so before you try you dont know if the moment was perfect or not. you know at the end. so got to try all the time. pzzz
 
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C00Ll, care to explain by what you mean when you say "perfection only comes in moments"???
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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he meant exactly what i said
 
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