"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Perfect Man Face Created by a Computer)

Desdinova

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This REALLY goes to show that education doesn't mean 5hit when it comes to real life...

http://english.pravda.ru/science/tech/22-05-2006/80712-beauty-0

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Researchers at the School of Psychiatry of St. Andrew’s University in Scotland made a computer drawing of a perfect man’s face thought to be irresistible to most women. The face is a composite image made up of the photographs of 12 students who consented to the use of their pictures for the benefit of science. Thirty four female students in their early twenties rated the attractiveness of each face on a scale of 1 to 7. The final composite was made by proportionally mixing features of all 12 photos.

The final composite stands out by its pronounced femininity. The modern woman does not find attractive neither facial hair nor a strong chin on a man’s face. She does not seem to like any other features traditionally associated with a “real macho man.”

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In a related story...

That guy's girlfriend is boning the mailman.
 

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Hahahaahhaahahaha... wait wait... hahaahahahah!

Kids that looked like that (well, at least had that sh1t eating, smarmy face) got their asses beat at my high school.
 

Create Reality

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The face looks like it hasn't hit puberty yet, or even knows what testosterone is lol. I'm not surprised a "manly face" scares women with all their fantasy stories they watch on TV. That **** brainwashes people.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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They did a better study in Germany a few years ago.

http://www.uni-regensburg.de/Fakult...ish/sozialewahrnehmung/sozialewahrnehmung.htm

There is a set of attractive female faces/unattractive faces and attractive male faces/unattractive faces.

For a female having an unattractive face is pretty much the end of the line. There is nothing she can do to make herself more attractive and select a better mate. However she can still succeed by becoming a nicer person and more generous when it comes to sex.

Men on the other hand having an unattractive face is not the end of the world. I wouldn't call those unattractive faces in fact they are pretty average. Those men however can become more masculine and be more social and still snag a pretty HB, its just that they need to work a bit harder at it.

DJD
 

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Desdinova said:
This REALLY goes to show that education doesn't mean 5hit when it comes to real life...
Ain't that the truth!

Just like all scientists and theorists locked up in a room somewhere, they have no clue when it comes to reality.
 

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RedPill said:
In a related story...

That guy's girlfriend is boning the mailman.
:crackup:

He's the perfect...

:crackup:

...boning the -

:crackup:

Average Frustrated Chump with the perfect face.

:crackup:
 

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!!!!! Wtf!

Wait a minute.... I've seen this guy before....

Here is my Army picture taken when I was 17 imposed right next to it.



Huh? What?

Jawline is different, but other than that...

:D
 
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That's disgusting. There's NO WAY that any of it is true.

It looks like a fat chick for god's sake!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Vulpine said:
Wait a minute.... I've seen this guy before....

Here is my Army picture taken when I was 17 imposed right next to it.



Huh? What?

Jawline is different, but other than that...

:D
Damn man, you were a good looking muthaf*cker :D
Don't know how you look now thirteen years later though...
And the first guy who calls me gay...:trouble:

:whistle:

Actually I remember reading from some studies (probably just the same german study posted by DJDamage) that an attractive face has well defined jawlines (which is common knowledge), basically in other words, faces that are lean, whick don't have too much fat. When you actually think of of the good-looking people you know, you will realize that this theory actually stands.

The face from the link posted by Desdinova definitely is too fat. But at the same time you can see the big potential if the extra fat goes away. Anyway it's just a virtual computer-generated face so it doesn't matter right?
 

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Thanks Parisien.

Man, this revelation is a huge confidence boost.

Btw, 13 years later I look better! MuahahahahaAAAHAHAHH!
 

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...and more manly. LOL
 

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that's a good face, better than the majority of pics I see posted by members here

but he looks underage and you guys talk about his face like he's obese

no he's not 5% bodyfat but he is at a healthy bodyfat percentage
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wonder how hot the ladies would think he was if he had a mullet.
 

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Vulpine said:
Wait a minute.... I've seen this guy before....

Here is my Army picture taken when I was 17 imposed right next to it.



Huh? What?

Jawline is different, but other than that...

:D
Your eyes are to big and non symmetrical, along with your nose, far from perfect.
 

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Beautiful people have an enormous advantage. Especially in situations where a good first impression is decisive, beautiful people benefit from their attractivity. And this is just because we are trapped by the simple false conclusion: "what is beautiful is also good".
 

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WhAcKeD! said:
Your eyes are to big and non symmetrical, along with your nose, far from perfect.
Your jealousy is showing... you better tuck that in before you trip over it, DJ.

;)
 

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Goodlooking mug there, Vulpine!


The perfect male face: along with the rest of you, I think those Scottish scientists got it wrong. (Sure, maybe for a Scot that's the best face they can hope for....) That's no reason to reject the whole pursuit though, of course. That German study DJDamage posted is interesting.

Explanation for those newcomers to the research, who may wonder about this scientific pursuit:

Like Dr. Marquardt writes in regard to the Beauty Mask, when we see beauty in facial symmetry we are really showing our appreciation for the human archetype. This is logical: we recognize other members of our species mostly by sight as we don't have the developed sense of smell of e.g. cats and dogs. Since we need to interact with other members of the species to survive, it is our instinct to be drawn to the archetype, which rests on proportions made up by the stable number 1.618, the Golden Cut.

The human facial archetype is in fact female - remember that even with men, the fetus was a female before blessed with that hardy dose of testosterone. That is why even women consider the female face to be beautiful, whereas men are much more indifferent to other male faces.
The face turns male by the addition of traits that signal strength and aggression - the qualities needed for hunting and fighting. Such traits are e.g. more hawkish eyebrows.

Facial symmetry is not the only thing attractive in the face, of course. We also appreciate signs of youth, as youth equals health, which is a survival trait. And men appreciate if the perfect female facial symmetry is modified by paedomorphic traits - childlike traits - as they signal the young age that means a woman is more likely to be untouched, so any children coming out of her are more likely to be ours after we have slept with her.

Evolutionary psychology sure is interesting.

I write this for the benefit of those who are terrified of the thought that we may actually consider one face less attractive than another, through no fault of the owner of that face - the horror. Nobody ever said nature was fair. It is just nature.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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