"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

The people who will never get any action...

The Deacon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2007
Messages
452
Reaction score
7
Location
Utah
...are those stupid jaded @$$holes who always try to downplay what PUAism and DJism are all about. It's one thing if they're naturals already getting some, but if they're some lonely nerd that spends all of his time on the internet making fun of Mystery, they're just mad cause they aren't going to get any action. Jeez.

I'm sure you guys have already seen the PUA Cajun in the show Keys to the VIP. Before Cajun went on there, all these "textbook game nonbelievers" kept saying "bring a PUA on here so we can watch him get whooped." The funny thing is, when Cajun goes on the show, he does phenomenal. He wins the game with flying colors AND one of the judges said he was the best they've ever had on the show! If you don't believe me watch the episode.

To those of you who are jaded, irritable, lazy, sarcastic, you're probably just mad cause you're not getting any. People like that need to keep their uninformed, jaded opinions to themselves and never try to bring others down with their stupid garbage.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

KontrollerX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 11, 2005
Messages
4,476
Reaction score
182
Great post The Deacon.

There's been a lot of crabs, haters, feminists and other undesireables making new accounts to troll the forum lately to undermine the message of the site for their own personal reasons.

The guy with that "John Again" name on here seems to of inspired your post as he regularly speaks out against Mystery and props up his own AFC mentality as the path to success.

That guy is a regular troll here and an example of the types of trolls that I already listed that we've got here posing as real members of the DJ community.

Anyway as a tip to all you real DJ forum posters just remember that everyone who really loves and respects this community all respects eachother's messages and appreciates each posters helpful nature, its the trolls, unrepentant AFC's and crabs in a barrel that post their passive aggressive insults towards helpful messages and pass off their AFC garbage beliefs as DJism when nothing could be further from the truth. The discontent and constant hostile disagreeability identifies the trolls from the true members of the community.
 

Gangster Of Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2002
Messages
2,574
Reaction score
66
Age
52
Location
Los Angeles
DonGorgon said:
I agree.. getting PU$$Y is very very important..
...and perhaps the most important thing in life. :up:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Poonani Maker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2007
Messages
4,392
Reaction score
927
Well, personally, after viewing Mystery's material (not the staged VH1 show), and hearing him out, I observed his character more than what he had to say in his seminar, and came to the conclusion as I was watching, that he is a Thug. Probably has done his share of drugs, and therefore has to 'Trick' a non-criminal woman to goto bed with him. I see someone with a lot of insecurities, someone with a lot of pint-up anger, a braggart. Satan in this video made me think of Mystery or any other magician: http://youtube.com/watch?v=cqi5F5MqqTQ
 

aldaris

Banned
Joined
Feb 18, 2008
Messages
182
Reaction score
1
http://www.nydailynews.com/blogs/ilovetowatch/images/mystery.jpg
our hero! man of men. king of kings. any of you guys get his autograph? i bought his book and would love for him to write "sarge on!" in it. you can tell by that pic that he is all dj. what kind of makeup do you think mystery wears?

yeah, i saw that tv show. cajun man was on fire! i recorded it and showed it to some afc friends of mine. they were like, "yo, stud that is tv." what idiots they are! their loss. they are as hopeless as the stupid kids who would fight me back in grade school because they wouldn't believe me when i told them that hulk hogan was really kicking ass in the ring. wonder where those idiots are now!

afc losers just hate us because we be bangin'. reminds me when i scored two touchdowns in one quarter of varsity action back when i was a high school soph! the unpopular kids hated me then and they still be hating on me now!

wanna quiet an afc? just tell him, "smell my finger!"
 

L777

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 1, 2005
Messages
1,206
Reaction score
20
Age
40
Location
manchester UK
The Deacon said:
...are those stupid jaded @$$holes who always try to downplay what PUAism and DJism are all about. It's one thing if they're naturals already getting some, but if they're some lonely nerd that spends all of his time on the internet making fun of Mystery, they're just mad cause they aren't going to get any action. Jeez.

I'm sure you guys have already seen the PUA Cajun in the show Keys to the VIP. Before Cajun went on there, all these "textbook game nonbelievers" kept saying "bring a PUA on here so we can watch him get whooped." The funny thing is, when Cajun goes on the show, he does phenomenal. He wins the game with flying colors AND one of the judges said he was the best they've ever had on the show! If you don't believe me watch the episode.

To those of you who are jaded, irritable, lazy, sarcastic, you're probably just mad cause you're not getting any. People like that need to keep their uninformed, jaded opinions to themselves and never try to bring others down with their stupid garbage.
Not neccessarily. I think scripted game is complete bollocks, even if it works.

Seriously, I wouldn't feel good the next morning if I'd regurgitated some MM and managed to con a girl into fvcking me.

But when I wake up next to a girl, having used natural game....I feel good, because it was ME that pulled her, not someone else's games. See what I mean.

And sarcasm is a genetic trait of the British. :D
 

comic_relief

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 29, 2004
Messages
3,282
Reaction score
49
Location
Baltimore, MD
L777 said:
Not neccessarily. I think scripted game is complete bollocks, even if it works.

Seriously, I wouldn't feel good the next morning if I'd regurgitated some MM and managed to con a girl into fvcking me.

But when I wake up next to a girl, having used natural game....I feel good, because it was ME that pulled her, not someone else's games. See what I mean.

And sarcasm is a genetic trait of the British. :D
Excellent post everyone

comic_relief
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

The Deacon

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 26, 2007
Messages
452
Reaction score
7
Location
Utah
Cajun isn't really an advocate of scripted game. He only believes in using scripted game until you learn the ropes. He used scripted game in that episode so people can see that social interactions can actually be broken down into a structure.

Script or no script, Cajun proved that he was legit. After all, the script can only do so much of the work. You still have to have the right body language, tone of voice, or "subtext" as Cajun calls it in this interview:

http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/2008/01/31/mystery-method-instructor-on-keys-to-the-vip-video/
 
Top