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Special delivery, just for PURPLE, heheh,..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JgpSBuLXFoI&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JgpSBuLXFoI&feature=related
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
KontrollerX said:At Bohemian Grove our elite rulers gather together to worship the ancient pagan deity Molech and carry out a ritual of mock human sacrifice so its really no surprise.
There is tons of satanic architectural designs in Washington.
Its a haven of Freemasonry.
And then there is the culture of the metaphysical/astrological realm:Purple-Haze said:I was referring to Western culture and literature. The Eastern world (and some of Africa, etc) have their own take on le penis (we'll leave that for another discussion).
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How lovely it would be if I were being tested on penis worship tomorrow.
That was a great sosuave post. Cutting through the crap and getting right down to the core of the issue. A+Interceptor said:There appears to be more emphasis on women's virtue and gift and the wonder of mother hood and pregncy.
The gift of motherhood and pregnancy are considered 'magical'. (The thought of the other side of the equation, the man's involvement is not given much importance at all.)
Yet, often a man's sexuality is considered trivial and commonplace.
Men grow up in a society that TELLS them they are 'inept' buffoons, who sit around watching football and drinking beer. We are often dehumanized,and made out to be 'simple minded'.
Because so many men grow up feeling inadequate, the timidity and lack of assertiveness of their sexuality, masculinity,and manhood get put aside. Somtimes by the hand of men themselves.
They are taught to demonize masculinity, and believe it to be 'vulgar'.
Because of these fabrications and associations, men's feelings of inadequacy have them looking towards women to 'fix' them, and 'teach' them.
Thus, giving women an even higher step on the pedastle so to speak.
With women crying disatisfacton with men's 'performances' and the complexities to a degree of unlocking a woman's full sexual pleasure, men again, give another point of status to women, thus raising their 'value' and importance to a level where even women themselves feel uncomfortable with it.
I'm sure we've seen thousands of manuals on 'how to please a woman in bed', but not much emphasis on men's satisfacton, and less, lack thereof.
(there are some manuals, but they're not 'common')
It is often believed that men will have sex with anything.
No one relly talks about a Man's character, just his failings, and his 'bad judgement' in front of the media.
But the gift of motherhood and pregnancy is to be revered.
(im not saying its right or wrong, just the appearance)
In addition, due to the emphasis on women being 'the choosers' , men in many ways seem to be DeValued.
It also seems that to empower a man's sexuality and recognition of it seems redundant.
As there seems to be a belief that men do not need 'empowerment' , if aything , men have been villified and lumped together in often condescending methods. Men need to be 'controlled' , the "sexual predators" that they are.
Men's sexuality =BAD, SHAMEFUL
Women's= "You go,girl! Get you groove on!"
With regards to sexual satisfaction, isn'the United States one of the lowest scoring in terms of sexual satisfaction and frequency in the world???!!
Women AND Men are not exactly dancing in the streets here....
Since the belief that a man's sexuality is mostly considered 'vulgar' and crude, the image of a man's power and virility is also thought of in such a manner.
We grow up in a society that worships a woman' body and beauty as a virtue.
Paintings, sculptures, poetry, music, you name it.
The beauty of a woman is everywhere we look. This image of woman's importance, since their image is everywhere and associated with beauty and virtue , no wonder men grow up not feeling appreciated.
Sure, there's Michelangelo's David. But for every 'David' there's thousands of sculptures of a woman.
(not saying this is 'wrong' or 'BAD", just an observation)
When people want to deny another person the recognition of their own personal power, it is often because of the denier's total lack of it and recognition of it.
Beware of people who get 'defensive' too quickly...
You've made some very solid observations Interceptor. This was more or less where I was coming from with my initial post. I was more interested in how these anxieties are expressed in our cultural forums (i.e. the media, literature).Interceptor said:PH, Some opinions of mine...
There appears to be more emphasis on women's virtue and gift and the wonder of mother hood and pregnancy.
The gift of motherhood and pregnancy are considered 'magical'. (The thought of the other side of the equation, the man's involvement is not given much importance at all.)
Yet, often a man's sexuality is considered trivial and commonplace.
Men grow up in a society that TELLS them they are 'inept' buffoons, who sit around watching football and drinking beer. We are often dehumanized,and made out to be 'simple minded'.
Because so many men grow up feeling inadequate,with their timidity and lack of assertiveness of their sexuality,-masculinity,and manhood get put aside. Somtimes by the hand of men themselves.
They are taught to demonize masculinity, and believe it to be 'vulgar'.
Many men are shamed into feeling more femenine , rather than more masculine.
Because of these fabrications and associations, men's feelings of inadequacy have them looking towards women to 'fix' them, and 'teach' them.
Thus, giving women an even higher step on the pedastle so to speak.
With women crying disatisfacton with men's 'performances' and the complexities to a degree of unlocking a woman's full sexual pleasure, men again, give another point of status to women, thus raising their 'value' and importance to a level where even women themselves feel uncomfortable with it.
I'm sure we've seen thousands of manuals on 'how to please a woman in bed', but not much emphasis on men's satisfacton, and less, lack thereof.
(there are some manuals, but they're not 'common')
It is often believed that men will have sex with anything.
No one relly talks about a Man's character, just his failings, and his 'bad judgement' in front of the media.
But the gift of motherhood and pregnancy is to be revered.
(im not saying its right or wrong, just the appearance)
In addition, due to the emphasis on women being 'the choosers' , men in many ways seem to be DeValued.
It also seems that to empower a man's sexuality and recognition of it seems redundant.
As there seems to be a belief that men do not need 'empowerment' , if aything , men have been villified and lumped together in often condescending methods. Men need to be 'controlled' , the "sexual predators" that they are.
Men's sexuality =BAD, SHAMEFUL
Women's= "You go,girl! Get you groove on!"
With regards to sexual satisfaction, isn'the United States one of the lowest scoring in terms of sexual satisfaction and frequency in the world???!!
Women AND Men are not exactly dancing in the streets here....
Since the belief that a man's sexuality is mostly considered 'vulgar' and crude, the image of a man's power and virility is also thought of in such a manner.
We grow up in a society that worships a woman' body and beauty as a virtue.
Paintings, sculptures, poetry, music, you name it.
The beauty of a woman is everywhere we look. This image of woman's importance, since their image is everywhere and associated with beauty and virtue , no wonder men grow up not feeling appreciated.
Sure, there's Michelangelo's David. But for every 'David' there's thousands of sculptures of a woman.
(not saying this is 'wrong' or 'BAD", just an observation)
When people want to deny another person the recognition of their own personal power, it is often because of the denier's total lack of it and recognition of it.
Beware of people who get 'defensive' too quickly...
PS I could be wrong. For the record, I still LOVE Women. There can be no "Mars" without 'Venus'. Just stating some observations, NOT "facts" here...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The penis does not command the same sort of reverence that the womb/****oris does. And as Interceptor said, many men grow up with a sense of shame about their sexuality (a shame that follows them into adulthood I think). This is why so many guys have hangups about their masculinity - the seeds of masculine pride were not sown in childhood.Gubby said:I figure the reason people go mushy over wombs and not di'cks is that the sort of people to take metaphor so seriously are usually the sort of people who have vaginas if you know what I mean.
We have penis worship everywhere. They just don't call it that. Guns, swords, skyscrapers.........
Yeah...........Purple-Haze said:The penis does not command the same sort of reverence that the womb/****oris does. And as Interceptor said, many men grow up with a sense of shame about their sexuality (a shame that follows them into adulthood I think). This is why so many guys have hangups about their masculinity - the seeds of masculine pride were not sown in childhood.
I'm very curious, because it seems to me, both men and women are having more sex than ever before. What I mean, is that sex is the easiest to get in the history of the U.S.Interceptor said:With regards to sexual satisfaction, isn'the United States one of the lowest scoring in terms of sexual satisfaction and frequency in the world???!!
Women AND Men are not exactly dancing in the streets here....
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They may be having more sex but they are not as aware as they could be about their sexuality. What I mean by this is that the average man seems unaware of his sexual drive and is almost ashamed of this (which, as I mentioned earlier, is expressed in the way we think and talk about the penis).Mr.Positive said:I'm very curious, because it seems to me, both men and women are having more sex than ever before. What I mean, is that sex is the easiest to get in the history of the U.S.
Perhaps, it's the free expression of sexuality that's lacking here...compared to other countries.