"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the pedestal

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when I first came here I saw a lot of guys talking about "taking women off pedestals"

it took me around 3 years to realize what that actually meant , I mean its easy to get sucked into a woman isn't it

pretty face , sexy a$$ , cute voice and all the other stuff that drives men to transform into nervous little boys around them

and it doesn't help that over the decades women & the media have perfected this illusion

many are so far into the lie that even they believe they are goddesses that can bend any mans will ,

the truth of it all that once you strip all the make-up and fancy clothes off a woman is merely another person , a person who has a vagina and t1ts but still a person that has all the same little problems in life you do

it took me a long while to realize this and that in matter of fact no woman is actually "out of my league" she merely appears to be

break the illusion with your own self confidence , negs or backhanded compliments and suddenly she's found something in you that she cant find anywhere else (that's where your hook comes)

be aware though that there are women out there that are so deluded now they cant mentally cope with a man who doesn't buy into their illusion

this doesn't necessarily mean you cant f@ck these women , you just have to go the other way and play into it ;)

games are wonderful things to play once you understand the rules ......
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Agreed.

I think men who pedestalize women haven't spent enough time with them. Actually date a girl for a few months, and you realize she can be a brat, she has morning breath, she takes craps, and her vaginal hygiene sometimes tapers off.

If you just look at them as human beings that have biological functions and want to spend time with YOU then this game becomes one hundred-times easier.
 
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