"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Overt Perv Method

dynamicallyidle

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I've been thinking I should be very open about the perv I am. When I see a moderately average woman, I instantly start undressing them with my eyes, and mutter to myself "daymmmmm." I'm so sick of not telling them what is on my mind. I want to walk up to the girl and say it at the top of my lungs, "WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE POSITION? I WANT TO MAKE YOU MY SLAVEEE..." %@#% I'm sooo horny. I think it'll make me look confident though if I tell these *****es what is on my mind. I feel unconfident about these feelings. I shouldn't be. Neither should you if you're feeling them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Subliminal

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mcpwn: you mean it doesn't work FOR YOU. I encourage our original poster here, dynamicallyidle, to give this a shot and see if it works out for him. Maybe it will, maybe it won't. Just because it doesn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for him. Maybe he's just the better PUA. If anything, he will learn from the experience and benefit from it.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Works good on hors!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rebound Material

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you know what, i really want to see how this goes...Im really tempted to put this idea down, but REALLY tell me/us how it goes.
 

mcpwn

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Subliminal said:
mcpwn: you mean it doesn't work FOR YOU. I encourage our original poster here, dynamicallyidle, to give this a shot and see if it works out for him. Maybe it will, maybe it won't. Just because it doesn't work for you, doesn't mean it won't work for him. Maybe he's just the better PUA. If anything, he will learn from the experience and benefit from it.

I encourage him to do it as well lol just sayin didnt work for me
 
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