"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cablecow15

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ok theres two hott girls on the other side of the class that r possible canidates fo me ones hot and single and ones hot and likes some doosh bag but yea my problem is i never get to talk to them in class and i cant think of any thing to say out side of class that would help me the only stuf i caoud talk about would make me sound stupid o one other thing the single ones a preppy girl and im a rocker guy does that mean tha i should just forget about her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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djweses89

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what you mean by rocker guy first and no never forget them just go up to them be like ey did you get that homework from the other night no one seems to have it or be like wats up yall need help on anything just some excuss for you to go over to them and then thats when you work the method of being a DJ
 

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by rocker i mean i listen to rock music i go to concerts u kno rocker
 

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So long as you don't have the stupid long messy hair you should be fine.

Sounds pretty wierd to me, this being in the Highschool board. I'm English, I go to a fairly decent sized school (360 people per year) and I know everyone in all of my classes. It just sounds strange the idea of them being 'at the other side of the class' as though it's a huge divide...
 

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You can approach with most anything; homework, music, sports.

If it's football season, and your school is big on that you can find out about what's going on and see if they're going to the game and what not. If they are you can something along the lines of well I'll see you there. Then when you show up just say a brief hello or something and walk off. On the next day in class you can talk to them about the game or what they thought of. If you have a sense of humor you can always say stuff in class to get them to notice you as well.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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