The Other Dates Card Question

[One on One]

Refer to http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip269.htm for what I'm talking about.

That article talks about how we should mention other dates to girls we are interested in (even lying about it) to increase IL. I agree 100% with the concept, but how can you bring that up without sounding cheesy? It seems too weird to say "I can't do anything Saturday because I have a date." Or, anything really. You can't be too specific or it sounds like you are intentionally telling her the information. However if it is too vague, she might think you're just hanging out with friends.


How do you do it?

 

[violator]

You should be as vague as possible. Mention that you are going out with a friend or don't make yourself available on the weekends until she officially becomes your gf. Being direct I think can backfire because if you are upfront that you are seeing other girls it kills the mystery. Let her imagination run wild. Girls love this. It makes the whole dating thing exciting for them.

 

[madgame]

Would yall say the other dates card is an effective way to have a girl who used to have high IL which dropped get back to that high IL?

 

[iqqi]

only if she has SOME IL.

it's tricky raising the dead...