"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IjXUgxR4Z10

LOL! Some of you guys should try this. Funny clip.

George comes to the realization that he should try to do the opposite of everything, so he does, his luck changes and everything begins to go his way including getting a girlfriend, a job with the Yankees and moving out of his parents' house. Things begin to be unlucky for Elaine after she buys a box of "Jujyfruits." Kramer appears on Regis & Kathie Lee to promote his coffee table book. Rachel wants to break up with Jerry and he readily agrees, because his luck has been "even Steven." Elaine's eating of "Jujyfruits" causes Pendant Publishing to go under, and later she realizes that she and George have traded places.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I love this episode of Seinfeld. It's a trip man. I actually did this one time.
In the past,I was just the typical nice guy and whenever I did approach a girl with my "niceness",of course I got turned down. So one day I decided to just try something different. I figured what did I have to lose,what I was doing wasn't working,so if I do something completely different,something so completely off the chart and it still doesn't work,what difference would it make? So the next time I approached a girl,instead of doing my usual "nice guy" thing,when I approached a girl at a counter while checking out my groceries,this is what went down:

me: You don't have a ring on your finger,good. So when are we going out?
her: I have a boyfriend.
me: (in a stern voice) I DIDN'T ASK YOU IF YOU HAD A BOYFRIEND,I ASKED YOU WHEN WE'RE GOING OUT.
her: Well,I'm going to (name of a club) tonight.

Man,I was shocked. I was so taken back,I didn't know what to do. I couldn't believe that worked. In fact,I was so dumbfounded,it knocked me back into "afc mode",and of course,I screwed it up. However,I did learn a lesson that day. Be willing to branch out and try new things,things that you would never in a million year even dream of doing. If you have "zero" now,then you try something different and it still doesn't work,you won't have lost anything,but you will have gained a little more knowledge on what not to do.

Cool thread man.
 

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One of my all-time favorite episodes, lol
 

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In the past,I was just the typical nice guy and whenever I did approach a girl with my "niceness",of course I got turned down. So one day I decided to just try something different. I figured what did I have to lose,what I was doing wasn't working,so if I do something completely different,something so completely off the chart and it still doesn't work,what difference would it make? So the next time I approached a girl,instead of doing my usual "nice guy" thing,when I approached a girl at a counter while checking out my groceries,this is what went down:

me: You don't have a ring on your finger,good. So when are we going out?
her: I have a boyfriend.
me: (in a stern voice) I DIDN'T ASK YOU IF YOU HAD A BOYFRIEND,I ASKED YOU WHEN WE'RE GOING OUT.
her: Well,I'm going to (name of a club) tonight.
That rules dude, I like it. Trying new things for progress is great.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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