"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Opener: If it doesn't work I'll pay you

No.Danny

No.Danny

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"Firstly hi I'm Danny. Secondly I'm cute you're cute, think of the possibilities. Now stop thinking and shoot back a message" *for the idiots cause I know the people in this forum change Danny with your name*
That's my online opener for every girl, the replies and the rates are ridiculous. They usually say "haha thanks" to "Confident I like it" others have said "conceited huh?" I reply with "confident*" and from there on it was game over,
Now go. Prove me wrong
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I like it :up:
 
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I dont see a problem with the compliment off the bat, you both know thats why you are talking to her in the first place and you are just stating what you are thinking, plain and simple. Doesnt mean shes special, just that you wouldnt mind banging her.

Also danny I picked a rando cute girl and sent your msg and no response, I want my money back. ;)
 
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jurry said:
I dont see a problem with the compliment off the bat, you both know thats why you are talking to her in the first place and you are just stating what you are thinking, plain and simple.
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They are showered by compliments from the moment they wake up at the morning. A hot confident girl couldn't care less about your compliments. Stating your intention is a different story.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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