"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The only thing worse than being friendzoned

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When you find out that one ex gf who you were deeply in love (who now feels nothing for you) was pumped and dumped by another guy.

Usually what I do is get on Facebook and look at all the chicks I've pumped and dumped who now have dudes by the balls in committed relationships buying roses for them and **** and it helps the pain a little bit.


I think every alpha male has at least one chick who will always view them as a beta. That one ***** who will always think she's better than you because she dumped you first, you can't even remain friends with her because the blow to the ego is too great. She's not even in the top 5 chicks you've ever dated but she will always think she's better than you, will always tell her friends if she wanted you she'd still have you, nothing you can do about it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Even worse: Your new GF whom you are in love with was a victim of serial pumpNdump. Way to boost your confidence.
 

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Suspens said:
Even worse: Your new GF whom you are in love with was a victim of serial pumpNdump. Way to boost your confidence.
Not as bad IMO, at least in your case she still wants you.
 

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From experience, what grabbed me by the nape and forced the red pill down my throat, was being the guy who she allowed to do as I pleased to her, and then being the guy who had to wait and undergo a vetting process under the scrutiny of her friends and family - all this with the same girl. Being friendzoned is no match for 'landing the girl' and then going on to play the role of that "special guy" waiting for her at the end of a long slide of alpha c0cks, in my opinion. Rollo's latest piece deals with this very subject -

http://therationalmale.com/2015/03/24/betas-in-waiting/
 

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Suspens said:
Even worse: Your new GF whom you are in love with was a victim of serial pumpNdump. Way to boost your confidence.

EVEN WORSE YOUR EX GF WHOM YOU LOVE TO DEATH WELCOMES A PUMP AND DUMP.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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captain55 said:
she will always think she's better than you, will always tell her friends if she wanted you she'd still have you, nothing you can do about it.
This should matter to you about as much as her favorite rom-com or her favorite pair of high heels.
 

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You guys give too many fvcks about things that you can't control and things don't concern you at all.

Ego and its tricks. That motherfvcker can for sure ruin moods and lives.
 

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Females are not stupid, the pump and dump from your point of view is a pump and dump from their point of view too. I recently talked with a girl who recently broke an engagememnt, and is now going for ONS, she says she chooses the most retarded possible fools for this. So I think if you want to do pump and dump its good to look like a retarded asshat, but if youre intelligent, you cant hide it and they want more.

A girl who is really into you will never let you get away with just a pump and dump, she will find a way to get to you, remember what I say, she will be like a freaking leech until she entraps you. If a girl let you pump and dump her she does not think highly of you, which is actually good considering :D

But saying stuff like a female is the one being used in a pump and dump is stupid, its kinda like saying females are comlete retards which is dangerous. Never underestimate females, if you pumped and dumped its because she wanted so. They do this between relationships its normal. :}
 

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I don't get it. How is her being pumped and dumped something that should affect you in any way?
Exactly, if they get pumped and dumped it's totally on them! Not your fault if they're out on their own making bad decisions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Pffffft, I have had a girl that I liked have so much arrogance in her that she didn't want to give me any chance. But, over the course of 2-3 years and me changing so drastically and her seeing SOME of the progress too, she can't help but feel like she lost her chance with me.

Quite amazing actually. Don't worry captain, you'll find your time when it will happen to you too. :)
 

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BrainDamage92 said:
Females are not stupid, the pump and dump from your point of view is a pump and dump from their point of view too. I recently talked with a girl who recently broke an engagememnt, and is now going for ONS, she says she chooses the most retarded possible fools for this. So I think if you want to do pump and dump its good to look like a retarded asshat, but if youre intelligent, you cant hide it and they want more.

A girl who is really into you will never let you get away with just a pump and dump, she will find a way to get to you, remember what I say, she will be like a freaking leech until she entraps you. If a girl let you pump and dump her she does not think highly of you, which is actually good considering :D

But saying stuff like a female is the one being used in a pump and dump is stupid, its kinda like saying females are comlete retards which is dangerous. Never underestimate females, if you pumped and dumped its because she wanted so. They do this between relationships its normal. :}
Your taking it to the extreme, Im not really talking about a ONS.... when I said pump and dump I don't mean you banging a chick who you had no intentions on calling back the next day. The guy could of really liked the girl, only to dump her a few weeks later because a better plate came along or you got bored with her.
Still the guy could of easily said whatever he needed to get into the girls pants only to dump her ass later. We've all done it....

And a girl will always me more sexually attracted to that guy who ****ed her a few times and bounced than the guy who commits to a relationship with her.
 

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yeah my ex took pics at the club i bounced at with a singer of a pop group

turns out he pumped & dumped her.

when i heard that i told her sluts gonna slut.

i dumped her, then took her back. regret that.
 
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