devils3777
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Ben Franklin said something along those lines and if we can take this mentality, we would be better off because we will stop worrying about stuff we can't control.
E.g. THere is no guarantee that your girlfriend/wife/fiancee etc that you are insanely attracted to is going to die the following day or leave you for somebody else.
You meet a girl whom you think is wonderful and you are all excited. However, you are nervous around her and feel like you are walking on eggshells because you are not sure if she likes you as much as you like her or if a BDD will come along and steal her from you.
If you repeat to yourself, the only thing certain in life is death and taxes...you will feel more relaxed.
E.g. THere is no guarantee that your girlfriend/wife/fiancee etc that you are insanely attracted to is going to die the following day or leave you for somebody else.
You meet a girl whom you think is wonderful and you are all excited. However, you are nervous around her and feel like you are walking on eggshells because you are not sure if she likes you as much as you like her or if a BDD will come along and steal her from you.
If you repeat to yourself, the only thing certain in life is death and taxes...you will feel more relaxed.