It's this one. I read a ton of those PUA books and seriously, this is the only one that has truly helped me. This is stuff for normal people, PUA stuff from guys like Mystery is kinda weird. While those methods may work for some, they ceirtanly didn't for me and I can imagine I'm not the only one. From what I've read, these PUA are often weird kinda guys who use crazy stuff to get the chicks. I'm not learning card tricks or hypnosis to meet chicks that's one thing for sure... Seriously, check this book out. It's all you need.