"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Oneitis that won't go away

backbreaker

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Anyone here who has known me for a while will appricate this post and what I am about to say.

She just won't go away.

She's like a damn coachroach, a hot coachroach, that you spray RAID on, an entire bottle and it won't die.

about 4 days ago, I am driving down town, and I feel someone following me. I just got a speeding ticket like 2 days earlier, so i am being careful about watching who is in my rearview mirror.

I notice it's a girl but that's about it, I wasn't paying too much attention.

About 2 mintues later I get flagged down to pull over and here comes my old oneitis, steps out of her new(er) car, running to give me a hug.

Now, we have stopped talking to each other how many times now? About 8. And I thought the last one was it. I really did.

I mean she just defies the laws of dating. She openly flirts with you, at least me, on and on and on, throws hints out that are open "come **** me come ons" and then tells me everytime we are great friends.

It's really getting old. Old to the point where her hotness factor is wearing thin. But damn she used to be skin and bones, now she has filled out and has a picture perfect body.

She told me she is filming a movie out of town and will be back in 2 months but, and this is the **** I am talking about, no ***** footing around, "Wants to get together and go on a date when she gets back".

Then she tells me how she doesn't know what she wants sometimes, and how she was just ****ing the last guy she was with just to make me feel bad (Whcih didn't work in the least bit) which is why she always made sure she called me when she was on her way to his house, but now she realizes she missed up, blah blah blah blah blah. All this was about 3 months ago.

She I even entertain the thought of going on a date with her? I mean I know what I WANT to do, but sometimes the big head and the little head don't always agree
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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WTF IS THIS.

ive been reading you for yrs..and you posted more hardass then me...now your pulling this shyt.

You have the talent, skills, and dedicattion to be a better man then this..come on backbreaker..you need to stop this one-i-tis shyt..and go break some backs...hot girls that is..while you can.
 

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i give you two choices..

you turn her into a fuk buddy relationship type of woman... No feelings towards each other.. (only if u can handle that)

other choice is:

you cut her off..... simply by acting clingy to her.. tell you love her and u would die without her.. act like a *****.. give her flowers.. tell her u wanna marry her... then shes gonna run away from u.. i dont like this idea if i was you

i would tell her that i want space and i will contact u(her) when i feel that i am ready tell her that u dont want anything to do with her
 

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lol,

DUDE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW HOT SHE IS.

dude, her picture has gotten me more ass than any wingman could. Everytime someone comes to my house and sees a pic of her and asks who is that, and I say an old friend, and they ask have we had sex, and I say yes (Which we have, whcih isn't the problem), you can literarly see them start doing the perverbal tale-of-the-tape in their head. "damn, if I can **** him, i must be on the same level as her"

BUT

a body is a body, you are right, but there are situtations and cirumstances to why things the way they are... she is in a realtionship or I am, I honestly think we would make a good couple

what I plan on doing is pretty much, if she is anywhere near serious, making her basically earn the right to date me. because I'm done, I really am.

I mean, it's like some people just have your number.. she has mine. we have known each other for so long, I know exacltly what she is doing, why she is doing it, and so on and she knows what pushes my buttons, she knows how to get a response from me, better yet, she knows how to get the response she wants from me.
 

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Hey backbreaker, what's the back story here?

I tried looking through some of your old threads, and it's all this hot chick grovelling and begging you to ram her again.

So why did you stop in the 1st place? Can you link that old thread?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pimp-sicle

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backbreaker said:
DUDE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW HOT SHE IS.

This is by far the worst excuse I've ever seen you give to justify why you continue to talk to this stupid attention w-hore. I've followed this soap opera more or less from day 1 and I can tell you that her only motive in life is to find more males admirers. You say she would be good in a relationship?? Bwaaaaaaaaaaahhhh!! Dude, anyone that goes to the extremes that she goes to just to get attention and spark up some jealousy is not LTR material, she's the girl you call after a 6-pack! I'm sure you would be shocked if you knew just how many guys have fell for her acts before and how many will fall for it in the future.

She's got you concealed in her attention w-hore bubble. The reason you can't escape her wrath is partly because you've spent so much time dealing with her bullshyt and partly because you don't want to escape, you like the drama on some level.

Everyone has different taste, so I can't really judge you for what you like, but if this is the same girl that you posted pictures of before, she's not blindly beautiful. Cute, but not hot! Even if she was THAT HOT, you can't let her looks keep hypnotizing you into getting caught up in her show.

Your a bright guy, you definitely know how to handle women, but with this girl....your drowing in deep water.





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