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phatboi408

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Rollo Tomassi, thank you. THis post has come to a time when I needed the most........ Isnt a relationship or LTR is when you both know that there might be other ppl out there for you, but you two decided to stick with eachother..... THe community and not just the comminity has labeled this
(i.e. the ONE girl you can't seem to get past). However, it's necessary to differentiate between a healthy relationship based on mutual respect and a lopsided ONEitis based relationship, even when it has the best of intentions. In my estimation ONEitis is an unhealthy psychological dependency that is the direct result of a continuous socialization of the soulmate myth in pop culture.
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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wow...great post! How do you supposed to handle a girl who has oneitis for you?
 
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