Question: Why do you want to have success with women? Is it because you see other people, your friends, famous celebrities, with the most attractive females that you desire? Or is it because you genuinely want to engage in a sexual act with that woman.
The majority of you will say it's the thrill of controlling, and having that woman for yourself. Something that everyone wants, for yourself.
Question: What if you didn't need women to be happy, and what if by persuing hobbies and other intrests, women came with it? Then, would you spend so much time on just women?
The majority, again, will say that you would spend time on hobbies and other intrests. If the women came with it and you were happy, then what else could you ask for?
This is where I will begin, in the depths of your personalities. As I've stated to audiences before, we all strive to be successfull, all in different terms. Some of us models, some of us professionals, others in sports. Though, the idea of being sucessful with women is obsurd, because everyone is successful with women, if they don't try. Women are the one thing that don't require the term 'Practice makes perfect'. Sure, for approaching women you would say "Of course you need to practice!", but, do you really?
The correct anwser is no. If you feel satisfied with your life, without women, then why would you need to practice approaching women? Is it enevitable that you wil be in many situations where there is no need to approach, the ice has already been broken. Standing in line at Subway and a very attractive female is in front of you. Your running short of time, but you don't know how long you have. "Excuse me dear, What time is it?" . Simple, no practice required.
Satisfaction is not found in other people, it's found in yourself. Once you are self satisfied, you are generally satisfied. The richest of the rich have admitted that even with the wealth they have aquired, they are not happy. So, by having the women you desire, can you honestly say that would make you happy?
Thus, invest your time elsewhere; Hobbies, intrests, jobs. The fact of the matter is, women as you know go for something like all biological beings, that they cannot have. If you do not care, they care. Vice versa, as well. By not worrying, they start to worry.
"Am I good enough for him?" she questions herself.
"Mabey it's my dress" she says quietly
"He's having fun without me!" she repeats suprisingly.
Whatever you choose to do, there are women in that category. Personally, I know that I would rather have someone who is interested in my intrests, then in something I care nothing for. I know you all will agree with me, do not deny it. The catch phrase "plenty of fish in the sea" applies to this exactly. Now you might say that the area of intrest you persue does not have attractive girls. That's a generalization, because I'm sure it does, you just have to search. Though, I can always ask in return, what do you define as attractive? Everyone has their own opinion, except some get sidetracked by their peers opinions as well. It's a matter of searching, almost like real estate. You will not find the house that you desire right away, but with some searching and being realisitic, it is very likely you will find something if you put the effort into it.
This my friends, is what a Don Juan really is. A Don Juan is self satisfied, and self reliant. That does mean he doesn't get help from others, but he rarely needs it. A Don Juan is the careless leader, acheiving goals no others can dream. Think big, live big, it's how you play the game.
The majority of you will say it's the thrill of controlling, and having that woman for yourself. Something that everyone wants, for yourself.
Question: What if you didn't need women to be happy, and what if by persuing hobbies and other intrests, women came with it? Then, would you spend so much time on just women?
The majority, again, will say that you would spend time on hobbies and other intrests. If the women came with it and you were happy, then what else could you ask for?
This is where I will begin, in the depths of your personalities. As I've stated to audiences before, we all strive to be successfull, all in different terms. Some of us models, some of us professionals, others in sports. Though, the idea of being sucessful with women is obsurd, because everyone is successful with women, if they don't try. Women are the one thing that don't require the term 'Practice makes perfect'. Sure, for approaching women you would say "Of course you need to practice!", but, do you really?
The correct anwser is no. If you feel satisfied with your life, without women, then why would you need to practice approaching women? Is it enevitable that you wil be in many situations where there is no need to approach, the ice has already been broken. Standing in line at Subway and a very attractive female is in front of you. Your running short of time, but you don't know how long you have. "Excuse me dear, What time is it?" . Simple, no practice required.
Satisfaction is not found in other people, it's found in yourself. Once you are self satisfied, you are generally satisfied. The richest of the rich have admitted that even with the wealth they have aquired, they are not happy. So, by having the women you desire, can you honestly say that would make you happy?
Thus, invest your time elsewhere; Hobbies, intrests, jobs. The fact of the matter is, women as you know go for something like all biological beings, that they cannot have. If you do not care, they care. Vice versa, as well. By not worrying, they start to worry.
"Am I good enough for him?" she questions herself.
"Mabey it's my dress" she says quietly
"He's having fun without me!" she repeats suprisingly.
Whatever you choose to do, there are women in that category. Personally, I know that I would rather have someone who is interested in my intrests, then in something I care nothing for. I know you all will agree with me, do not deny it. The catch phrase "plenty of fish in the sea" applies to this exactly. Now you might say that the area of intrest you persue does not have attractive girls. That's a generalization, because I'm sure it does, you just have to search. Though, I can always ask in return, what do you define as attractive? Everyone has their own opinion, except some get sidetracked by their peers opinions as well. It's a matter of searching, almost like real estate. You will not find the house that you desire right away, but with some searching and being realisitic, it is very likely you will find something if you put the effort into it.
This my friends, is what a Don Juan really is. A Don Juan is self satisfied, and self reliant. That does mean he doesn't get help from others, but he rarely needs it. A Don Juan is the careless leader, acheiving goals no others can dream. Think big, live big, it's how you play the game.
I appreciate it though, it just gives me more motivation. I'll write up some more tommorow.