Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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the one thing you wear that helps the most..

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what is the one thing you wear while your picking up women (or try too) that you think helps you out the most.

confidence / in her eyes / in your eyes / etc.

i say the watch. the watch is a must for me.

nice watch = sucess. chicks dig a sucessful man. even if the watch isnt a rolex or something, it can still look nice. i've started conversations about my watch with a girl saying "thats a nice watch" ., or something like that.

let me hear yours..,
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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oakraiderz2

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Nothing. I dont wear anything except my awesome clothes.
 

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Nothing special. I just try to dress nicely all the time. You never know when you're going to run into some HB9 or something.
 

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A smile
 

Vulpine

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Shoes.

I've got a pair of box-toe Doc Martens that I polished to a mirror finish (ex-military).
:up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xblitz44x

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I think that the Kevin Federlines and every low-class jerk without a job yet with a hot girlfriend has proven to us that it's not success that chicks 'dig'. I don't know many girls that would say "God damn, he looks frail and fragile but he's wearing a nice watch so I'd let him throw it in me." :p

But with that said, a t-shirt with a funny saying usually gives women a reason to start a conversation and that is huge. A lot of girls are probably already attracted to you guys without you ever knowing. But since they are as shy as you (and been conditioned that they are supposed to let the guy approach), they sit back and wait, and wait, and wait. Something you're wearing that is different or funny could be the 'reason' to start a conversation that they are looking for.
 

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you dont have to wear anything, if a girl wants to start a conversation then she'll notice something you're wearing and will bring it up

I have like 50 pairs of different Nikes and Jordans, a girl that runs track was always complementing me on how nice my Shox were, did she care about my Shox? no but it was something she used to start a conversation

if not, then girls will notice wrist bands, cologne, watch, necklaces, chains, etc
 

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Haha strange, i don't even own a watch. I want a Movado, but don't really wanna part with $1500. Anyway, i guess my thing would be my Versace shades.
 

Mr_knowit_all

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Krassus said:
Haha strange, i don't even own a watch. I want a Movado, but don't really wanna part with $1500. Anyway, i guess my thing would be my Versace shades.

Depending on the type of "Movado" watch you're looking for, they sell for far less than 1.5k. They're great watches and quite honestly works of art.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my gym shoes make all the girls come to the yard. and they're like it's better than yours
 

T Money

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I wear a wife beater, a pair of d!ckies pants, my sandals, a pair of oakley's and a d!ckie's Flex-Fit and I get plenty of #'s and attention from girls.

Really doesn't matter if you look "suave", I just have a nice body and look real fit in the wife beater. Plus my tattoo's help a bit ;)
 

Gettinthere

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xblitz44x said:
I think that the Kevin Federlines and every low-class jerk without a job yet with a hot girlfriend has proven to us that it's not success that chicks 'dig'. I don't know many girls that would say "God damn, he looks frail and fragile but he's wearing a nice watch so I'd let him throw it in me." :p

But with that said, a t-shirt with a funny saying usually gives women a reason to start a conversation and that is huge. A lot of girls are probably already attracted to you guys without you ever knowing. But since they are as shy as you (and been conditioned that they are supposed to let the guy approach), they sit back and wait, and wait, and wait. Something you're wearing that is different or funny could be the 'reason' to start a conversation that they are looking for.
Even my AOL T-shirt with the famous guy running on the back? I know I stood out that day when all those customer service ladies started laughing and from the post most seem to think they were laughing at me but the laughter might have not been a good sign.

But who knows. I am wearing my scars I am learning to wear them well I have plenty and if the ladies don't like them the hell with them I'll live my life alone with a long uncut beard with uncut long hair and never take a bath or shower again lol!!!

Just kidding :)

Gettinthere
 
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