The one thing that will get you any woman and i mean ANY

[bfl]

Im watching the 5th wheel right now and this man said something that really got me. He said " any man can get any woman he wants all that has to be done is say what she wants to hear".

Then i thought about it and i was like BINGO thats it right there. I really think that its so true and so important to get the woman you want to say what she wants to hear and not what you want to say.

Thats something that will help many people in this forum.

REMEMBER: Tell her what she wants to hear and not what you want to say.

In order to do that put yourself in her shoes and think the other way around. If you are the girl what would you want a man that is approaches you to git on you to tell you.

Its that easy.

 

[OpenMind]

actions speak louder than words, make sure what you say you match with actions to follow or you will just look like another BS artist trying to get in a woman's pants.. if "getting" a woman means a lay, than it might work, if looking for an LTR, back that shyt up with concrete actions if you plan on keeping her.. nothing worse than someone who is fake..

 

[WatchMeWalk]

That's what I don't like about the speed seduction mentality: the delusion that you can make break through any women's defenses and compel her to like you with a magic phrase.

Reality doesn't work like that.

 

[iqqi]

sure, with two stipulations.
1. she is attracted to you
2. she hasn't yet learned that actions speak louder than words, in which case you'll be teaching it to her.

 

[Big Pappy]

Now that is just so very basic in its simplicity! Golly! Imagine that! Just say what a woman wants to hear.

You know, sometimes I think I know what a woman wants to hear. And then, sometimes I don't think that the woman even knows what she wants to hear. Most of the girls I talk to are not just sitting there saying in there heads, "Boy, if he would just say XXXX, I'd gladly sheet dance with him."
They assess your attractiveness, then your interest level. Anything more than casual interest is likely to repulse them. You're too available - emotionally, if not physically. For the innate reasons discussed within this forum numerous times, woman do not wish to court with the fellows who are over eager. They will not feel like you are the "great guy" unless they have to compete against something for you.

It is the same with us men. Even though she be beautiful, we are likely to wonder what is wrong with this beauty if she just walks up and plants a wet kiss on our lips. When things are easy, we are wary.

So, in summary, how am I going to say what a woman wants to hear if I have no idea what she wants to hear?

More to the point, I'm not certain I care THAT much what she wants to hear. We must all be true to ourselves. Just overcoming silent obections is no way to win the lady's love. It is done over time.

 

[fukkerindaface]

when she wants to hear it you get good feedback, smiles, eyes, and whenshe doesn't she keeps on talking like you don't exist.

 

[MVPlaya]

This hint is awful. I'm sorry, its not "that simple," for many guys "what she wants to hear" is real hard to figure out and for too many guys this will be misinterpreted into "tell her she's pretty, tell her you love her, blah blah blah blah."

It would be more accurate to say "tell her what she needs to hear." It works best if you can just communicate with her like you've known her forever and be confident and funny. "Tell her what she wants to hear" falls in the JBY category, its horribly misunderstood by the people who need to hear it most.

 

[becker]

I think that what most women want to hear is sincere but non-AFC words, meaning that if you compliment her, make it real, and not some feeble attempt at wooing her. It's all about how you say it. No "I'm not worthy" type of speeches.