The one night Stand?

[carlbruno]

ok guys i am stummped all the usual rules just dont apply....

so here i am sitting in the bar and i get approached by this nice lookin chick and i kind of blow her off..i definately threw her off about ten minutes later she returns and offers to buy me a drink.. so i let her..we talk for like 30 mins then shes says u want to dance, so i agree (of course not at first when she wanted to do it, when I wanted too ) so were dancing, she is blowing me away on the floor so she offers to teach me some stuff, reluctantly i agree, we it worked out ok, i learned some new stuff and we had a blast. after about another hour of this she says i have to go to the bathroom come with me. now its a long walk to the bathroom, its not exactly in the bar. so i follow her, and instead of going to the bathroom, she leades me out to the beach and lays down in the sand. well u can guess what happened next.....after finishing the lay we return to the bar...now her whole family and a bunch of her friends are in the bar..she starts introducing me to all her friends / family (scary way to soon, i kinda freaked out) So now she has to leave and she gives me her number and like double checks 2x that i got it right, also starts askin me if i have a girlfriend etc. then she leaves and is like u better call me i was like Maybe (never say yes and tell her what she wants to hear!) so afterwards lookin back: i am kind of confused, she is 23 im 20 she goes after a younger guy, who wasnted really interested in the first place, i was the quiet guy sittin in the corner drinkin and watchin the TV (seemingly innocent haha) she went after me, initiated the convo, drinking, dancing, and basically the hookup...now u would think this is just a one night stand with a horny hooaa..and that she doesn not actually expect me to call.. but why did she start asking me about girlfriends and also insisting on me taking her #? should i call her?? how should i play it from here? thanks guys!!

 

[Alen-Delon]

call her what do you got to lose.

Peace

 

[AlwaysLearning]

Depends if she was a great lay or not...

If you talking about dating this girl, HELL NO.

Otherwise do your thing with her but don't take her seriously or get attached.

-AL

 

[SnatchJP]

You're lucky and you're wrong. All the regular rules do apply. I'll admit it is a bit unusual for a girl to introduce you to all her family and friends right after a lay.

You wonder why she went for you? I don't know for sure I've got a pretty good guess. It doesn't sound like you're exactly a 5"2', overweight, balding, and smelly kind of guy. No, my guess is that this girl found you physically attractive.

It's possible that maybe one of the "family" members you were introduced to bet her that she couldn't hook up with you, thus the introductions, the persistance, the girlfriends check, and the phone number. You see guys do this all the time, "I bet you can't talk to that hot chick over there." You know the drill.

Anyway, up to this point you've done exactly what you've wanted to do. No reason to change that now. If you want to call her, go for it. If not, skip it.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

lol

Obviously she wants you to call her if she picked you up, fvcked you, asked you to call, checked the number 2x, asked about girlfriends. Do you think she did all this because she was obligated to?

C'mon man. Of course she digs you. It's just up to you if you want to hit it again...

But, if you are a girl posing as a guy and asking this question: why would you expect the guy to call? He led, you followed and he got what he wanted out of you. If he does call, cool, but I wouldn't wait by the phone.