Dash Riprock
Master Don Juan
There's a lot of talk on SS about being "Alpha." I see commercials on TV for "Alpha" supplements that will boost testosterone, etc. There's even a movie out now called "Alpha" though I think it's more about a wolf befriended by a boy--which brings me to my point:
Being Alpha is not bad thing.
It's also not a 100% good thing. Unless we're talking a wolf pack, which we're not. We evolved humans (most of us...).
Let me explain:
Being "too alpha" can be detrimental to your personal, professional, and dating game. "Pure Alphas" though aggressive, dominant, and authoritative, are also very apt to making bad decisions in life, love, and business because of the aforementioned qualities. Yes, the alpha can pull women, absolutely. He's also most likely the guy who cheats (and gets caught) and/or has been divorced 2-3 times, paying multiple women alimony and may even have kids with multiple women involving child support for all. Good for a wolf pack? Great. Human? Not so much. We are held accountable for actions in society unlike wild canines. Pure alphas are also far more likely to look for that next "rush" by way of substance abuse, misuse of money, and violence. Being a violent alpha leader in wolf pack? Great. Humans? Not so much. So though the "Alpha" has some strong qualities that account for some success, the paradox is that they are also their own worst enemy giving into detrimental T-fueled impulses that drive emotionally-charged decisions which can lead to personal, physical, and financial strife or ruin.
Strive to be a Don Juan/DJ. The DJ knows when to turn on the high testosterone to get things done, and when to dial back as to not lead oneself into bad decisions (in love, life, physical, etc.). They are assertive, not overly aggressive, and certainly not passive. They are calculating and know when and where to apply their energy to women, dating, personal, and business and when to pump the brakes.
A NASCAR has 800-900 HP and a max speed of over 200 MPH. But ask any pro driver and they do not have the pedal to the metal in 100% of race situations. It's actually only in a limited number of instances; passing, some straightaways, some open space. That's it. Maybe 20% of the time, tops.
So, the goal is to be a "Controlled Alpha" or simply put a DJ. Be the NASCAR driver if that helps. You are driven, assertive, aware, goal-oriented and your awareness and senses are keen. You don't answer to anyone nor do you take any BS--from anyone. You drive your life. Your success and happiness is NOT determined by the acceptance of some woman or any women. You employ IDGAF and the Abundance Mindset--always. You are continually working on your game and self. You are never finished or complete.
Employ this mindset and your life will change for the positive in all aspects forever.
Best of luck.
~Dash
Being Alpha is not bad thing.
It's also not a 100% good thing. Unless we're talking a wolf pack, which we're not. We evolved humans (most of us...).
Let me explain:
Being "too alpha" can be detrimental to your personal, professional, and dating game. "Pure Alphas" though aggressive, dominant, and authoritative, are also very apt to making bad decisions in life, love, and business because of the aforementioned qualities. Yes, the alpha can pull women, absolutely. He's also most likely the guy who cheats (and gets caught) and/or has been divorced 2-3 times, paying multiple women alimony and may even have kids with multiple women involving child support for all. Good for a wolf pack? Great. Human? Not so much. We are held accountable for actions in society unlike wild canines. Pure alphas are also far more likely to look for that next "rush" by way of substance abuse, misuse of money, and violence. Being a violent alpha leader in wolf pack? Great. Humans? Not so much. So though the "Alpha" has some strong qualities that account for some success, the paradox is that they are also their own worst enemy giving into detrimental T-fueled impulses that drive emotionally-charged decisions which can lead to personal, physical, and financial strife or ruin.
Strive to be a Don Juan/DJ. The DJ knows when to turn on the high testosterone to get things done, and when to dial back as to not lead oneself into bad decisions (in love, life, physical, etc.). They are assertive, not overly aggressive, and certainly not passive. They are calculating and know when and where to apply their energy to women, dating, personal, and business and when to pump the brakes.
A NASCAR has 800-900 HP and a max speed of over 200 MPH. But ask any pro driver and they do not have the pedal to the metal in 100% of race situations. It's actually only in a limited number of instances; passing, some straightaways, some open space. That's it. Maybe 20% of the time, tops.
So, the goal is to be a "Controlled Alpha" or simply put a DJ. Be the NASCAR driver if that helps. You are driven, assertive, aware, goal-oriented and your awareness and senses are keen. You don't answer to anyone nor do you take any BS--from anyone. You drive your life. Your success and happiness is NOT determined by the acceptance of some woman or any women. You employ IDGAF and the Abundance Mindset--always. You are continually working on your game and self. You are never finished or complete.
Employ this mindset and your life will change for the positive in all aspects forever.
Best of luck.
~Dash