Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Official So Suave Members Petition to Add a Field/Lay Report Section

Maximus Rex

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This will probably fall upon deaf ears, but f*ck it. There's one at www.venusianarts.com, www.rsdnation.com, and http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/, http://www.puaforums.com/ all have field report sections. Being that field reports are so instrumental in a dude's journey from RAFC to Don Juan, I feel that it's only appropriate that a field report section be added to So Suave. I don't think adding a field report section is asking too much and it will do a lot to add to the overall quality of the board.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I continually ask for field reports and not just theories or advice..
 

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I would like to see one of these added.
 

Mr Wright

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I think the only reason there isn't one is because SS likes to distance itself from the pick up community. I've said plenty of times, a seduction/dating forum needs more than just theory, it needs field reports showing the good and the bad.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr Wright said:
I think the only reason there isn't one is because SS likes to distance itself from the pick up community. I've said plenty of times, a seduction/dating forum needs more than just theory, it needs field reports showing the good and the bad.
Yea this does make sense.

sylvester the cat said:
Why don't you just post a Field Report?
Because field reports get lost in the shuffle because the DJ Discussion board is so active. Plus there's no easy way to separate field reports from the countless threads of noobs b!tching unless the title clearly says 'Field Report'
 

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You're Missing the Point

sylvester the cat said:
Why don't you just post a Field Report?
It isn't about posting a field report, it's about being able to conveniently access other members field reports. For example, I read Wright's journal, (BTW dope sh*t playboy,) but in order to access it, I had to go into my history and find a thread that Wright had recently posted in.
 
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I have done field reports in the past and the input from SoSuave members was very helpful to my growth. I try to give my opinions when people post field reports if their ego can take the constructive criticism. I did have a journal a few years ago, but asked to have it deleted after a plate found out about it.

Here is the beginning portions that I managed to recover. Hope it helps!

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1fN1i0xDp91IBNjSyBHBD1OXPkHR5vsdT-QNScQlkO7c/edit
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm a fan of this. I don't really post all that much in regards to game theory and all that stuff but I do enjoy a good field report and writing up my own. In my opinion as well they are the best ways to learn.

Gunner
 

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Isn't that one of the things the Don Juan Discussion section is for. That's where I post my field reports.

If they do add a Field Report section I don't think it should also say lay report. Let that be up to the people making the posts to label.
 

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The Number of Threads in the Section Isn't Relevant

Zarky said:
Because there would be about a half-dozen threads in it.
Mr. Wright's The Ramblings, Musings and Encounters of a Manchild is an exceptional journal that is obviously on an advanced level of game, that should be used as an example of where we all eventually hope to be. My only complaint about his journal is that he doesn't update it nearly enough.

Enough is Enough, Time for a Change Journal by thunder_god is a day-by-by accounting of a man's personal journal from hard case newbie to what will hopefully become a full fledged Don Juan. A must reading for anybody who's new to this **** and wants to make a change in there life.

Defensiveend96 JOURNAL is cool for younger guys facing the same issues that high schoolers and college freshman may be going through. The issue isn't quantity (because you can have thirty on going journals that really aren't saying sh*t, it's about quality and seeing how dudes are implementing theory in the field.
 

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I'm game to documenting some lay reports with my girlfriend. The thread will be called "The Lay Report". Other guys can post their lay reports with their HB's as well.
 

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GameofPickup said:
If I remember correctly, there used to be a FR forum on this site around a decade ago. It got closed due to minimal posting. However, I've always been for it, and it has my vote.

Do you guys remember.. Penkitten, T*ttyman, Backbreaker, etc.?

Jason
Correct! It's still there actually...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=23 :cool: :whistle:

I remember those members. They are still around.

A "Field Report" forum has been a big debate before, back when there was a "Suggestions and Feedback" forum. "Success Stories" was created to try to help the situation...

It was used by members for maybe a month, then the "new forum smell" cleared out and people stopped posting success stories (or making them up.)

As others have suggested, post a thread and put "FR" in the front to identify it as a "Field Report," as has been done in the past. Same with "Lay Reports" ("LR" in the front.)

There is another new forum that will be added soon that has been requested a lot before too. If that one gets a lot of interest, then maybe it will make the choice to add a "Field/Lay Report" forum a bit easier.

Also, requests for new forums goes into a forum that already exists. :trouble:

Anything Else.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How Did Cats Get Exposed?

TheVirtualMind said:
Bring it back, you started by moving The Adventures Of Omipotens Maximus Rex: Reports From The Field there.

TheVirtualMind said:
It was used by members for maybe a month, then the "new forum smell" cleared out and people stopped posting success stories (or making them up.)
:crackup: How did you find out dudes were making things up?
 

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hey you! i just found this post!! how the heck are you?
 

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Desdinova said:
I seem to recall a troll here years ago who posted really lousy tips, and I banished one of his posts to the "Unusual Techniques in Seduction" forum.
don't talk about fight club! rofl
 
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