"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The official playboy photographer thread:)

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What do u guys know about playboys the magaxine and hugh hefners lifestyle.In my opinion he is one of the ultimate d.j's in histroy.If u want to post any tips on photography as well pleaase post them here.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Nude photography isn't just about sitting a girl down without clothes on and snapping some shots. You'd be extremely surprised at how difficult it is... the shots that appear in men's magazines such as Maxim, Playboy, etc are all products of hours upon hours of tedious work on the part of a large group of people using a good amount of rather expensive equipment.

That being said, you've got to start somewhere. Here's a list of some of my favorite places on the web related to photography:

http://www.onemodelplace.com
http://www.betterphoto.com/home.asp
http://www.usefilm.com/
http://www.professionalphotography101.com/
http://www.geofflawrence.com/tutorials.htm
http://www.all-things-photography.com/
http://www.steves-digicams.com/

Oh, and:

http://www.jbspencer.com
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Komodo
I plan to do fitness an glamour photography any of you know any tips:)
Originally posted by diablo
Nude photography isn't just about sitting a girl down without clothes on and snapping some shots. You'd be extremely surprised at how difficult it is... the shots that appear in men's magazines such as Maxim, Playboy, etc are all products of hours upon hours of tedious work on the part of a large group of people using a good amount of rather expensive equipment.

That being said, you've got to start somewhere. Here's a list of some of my favorite places on the web related to photography:

http://www.onemodelplace.com
http://www.betterphoto.com/home.asp
http://www.usefilm.com/
http://www.professionalphotography101.com/
http://www.geofflawrence.com/tutorials.htm
http://www.all-things-photography.com/
http://www.steves-digicams.com/

Oh, and:

http://www.jbspencer.com
I also dabble in photography, and will be dipping the toes into glamour/nudes etc. The results i've gotten even with an incredibly modest camera have been satisfying.

Just mess with the lighting setup, and use an asset of paramount importance to technical gear - your eye...

Read up on basic photography composition "rules" (not that i've done it, as I usually learn things via trial and error and looking at others work for inspiration, but it's probably a good idea...).
 

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Re: Hi

Originally posted by Komodo
I plan to do fitness an glamour photography any of you know any tips:)
Sure. Read as much as you can. Take as many pictures as you can of as many people as you can. Study others photos that you like and try to figure out what aspects of them you like. Study your photographs and figure out what you did wrong, did right, could have done better, or changed completely.

Buy a digicam. Spend $200-300 more than you're comfortable with and get a quality camera. Preferably a DSLR if you're serious about what you're saying you want to do.

Practice makes perfect... and I've got a lot of practicing to do.
 

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Originally posted by Komodo
What do u guys know about playboys the magaxine and hugh hefners lifestyle.In my opinion he is one of the ultimate d.j's in histroy.If u want to post any tips on photography as well pleaase post them here.
Try to learn typing and spelling before moving onto photography. Just a thought.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Komodo
Yeah anyways do u guys know about some of the playboy photographers or others?
In the past few days what have you done regarding photography? Anything?

Here's what I do know - you'll never be anywhere close to good enough to be a photographer for playboy unless you've either got a huge natural talent or you practice for years. Since you're on here asking I'm guessing the natural talent isn't an option (it isn't with me, either) so perhaps you should get yourself a camera already...
 
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