"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Official Newbie Thread

Harp

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With the increasing number of new members in the HS Forum I decided that we should get to know eachother a little better.

1. How did you discover SoSuave?

2. What is your story?

3. Will you take charge of your life and improve OR will you troll around making useless posts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Skilla_Staz

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Shouldn't this be in the general discussion board, instead of the high school specific one?
 

Alex_1987

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1. I heard about Sosuave about six years back, but rediscovered it when I became absolutly fed up with the BS answers people were giving me about girls.
2. I was always the quiet boy in class, after moving to a new town I decided to change that and I have, however I don't claim to know anything more than I do so when it came to girls I decided that there must be some place in the word where guys get together and let each other know what workds so I found it and have just recently made an actualy account because of some problem that wasn't addressed by someone else.
3. I full believe the whole self-improvment bit the DJ bible gives you, so I will play an active role in answering and asking questions because thats the only way any of us will get anywhere.
 

Pantalones

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Introductions aren't such a bad idea. This is a community and the members should be on familiar terms.

1) It actually all began with a respectable fella named Tucker Max. He has a forum where him and his crew post stuff on all sorts of topics ranging from television to how to be a man. The latter interested me and I became aware of how the internet could be a usful tool. The journey for enlightenment eventually led me here.

2) I was born an ugly Asain baby. Raised in the US with traditional Asian values and was always a good kid, colored within the lines, and never really experienced much. This all changed last year. Now, with one year of HS left, I'm here to make up all the time I lost. Not all that experienced, and still on the fringes of popular society, but hey, I'm an ambitious mofo.

3) We're all here to make changes in our lives. Some people just don't realize it yet.
 
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