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Master Don Juan
Damn right! Preach it, brother!Originally posted by Lost In Translation
And any man who uses the Jedi arts is a LOSER
Oh... You meant...
Well, preach it anyway.
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Damn right! Preach it, brother!Originally posted by Lost In Translation
And any man who uses the Jedi arts is a LOSER
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah! It sucks. But that's the price intelligent people and people with conviction have to pay some times. But one thing is for sure though, people will respect you more for it. Even if they disagree with you, they will be aware that it's not that easy to 'get' you. I'm pretty sure too that girls will cling on to a strong personality if you manage to get a chance to 'interrogate' her. Even if she doesn't cling, she'll be fascinated by it.Originally posted by Lost In Translation
i agree
but it creates a dilema when the majority of young women fall into that category
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Really? Of course I learned it but I never used the techniques on women. Why? Because I just self-improved myself until women started approaching me. Did change myself to fit the role women want? Absolutely not! I integrated myself into what I wanted to become. I never became a female getting robot. I still wear gym shorts and a t-shirt even though my girlfriend asked me to wear jeans and a hoody. why? because it is not me. I choose to wear my own clothes and be myself. If she doesn't like it, there is the door. All it takes is a simple pull, walking, and push of that door but she knows that she can't control me on my mindset. She can offer suggestions all she wants.Originally posted by Lost In Translation you read souave you LEARN how to pickup women
bravo, encore encoreOriginally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
The Don Juan mindset will survive through all this, no matter what... because we don't use any tricks. It's all about being a real man, and acting accordingly. Anyone can put on a facade and get laid..... very few men can adopt this lifestyle and mindset we endorse for the longterm.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I've been here to try to help you guys since I joined back in 2001. This site used to have high quality men who were using this community to help each other better themselves in all areas. They weren't hateful and mean to each other and didn't hate on women like happens here now. The quality of posts was much higher too.
Thanks...I've been doing all the arguing and harsh posting as of late because I have seen these problems for a very long time now and am trying to do my part to turn it around. This site would be phenomenal IF all the posers, fakers and frauds would just stop that crap and be REAL with each other. All the anger and bitterness sucks the place down into a self-destructive cesspool, too. More people need to see it, acknowledge the problem and do their part to fix it. Hopefully enough people will care enough to do that. If not...well, it's only going to get worse.Originally posted by The Bad Ass Canadian
That part is the mindset I adopt and have been talking about. I agree 100% with what you're saying. Some guys on here are bitter and just want to get even.
I miss the old days when there was no bickering, and there was a real sense of community.
Excellent post, Wyld.
You guys have to work on YOU and learn some social skills with EACH OTHER and grow as men. That's not really happening here. Men who have their act together don't act like victims, blame others for their own mistakes or bad choices. Men don't act like women. Women are emotional, catty, hysterical, complain, and obsess over stupid little things. Most of them do, anyway. The majority of the men on here are behaving like women. You've got to get beyond that and become mature men who act like men. No, that doesn't mean acting "alpha" or being a jerk or ass. It means being dignified, having a life of your own, goals, setting yourself up for success in all areas of life.
I can relate as to many other men who have been programmed from birth and are trying to de-program ourseleves. T.V IS EVIL!!EVIILLLLL I TELL YOU ( I sound like grandpa Simpson I know lol).Originally posted by Lost In Translation
why was the programming successful when neither the father nor grandfather are professional handlers using mind control techniques
BECAUSE THE YOUNG MAN WAS PROGRAMMED FROM BIRTH
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.