"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The official feminism thread [Merged threads]

Kappe

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I'm probably the biggest feminist in the world. I want women to earn atlest twice as much money as men do, actually I want them to earn so much more that it isn't even any point for me to get a job. I'd just sit at home eating cheetos and mooching off my girlfriends.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Blue Phoenix said:
"Sure, you're chatting with some chick and she says, "I'm a total feminist."
Thats when you tell her you are too, and compliment her ass.
 

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Hehe this reminded me of my last girlfriend of two years. Great girl. Funny as hell. But in the end, the long distance thing was too much for me. Anyways she told me she was a feminist. When asked what feminism ment to her, she basicly said she wants to controll her own life, make her own decitions, career, education etc and not be grounded to the kitchen sink like a 1950's housewife. If that's feminism to them, then I have no problem with women calling themselves feminists. They don't know what it is, but like to throw labels around cause it's empowering them and giving them an identity.

Same thing with styles like the feminine man (metrosexual). In the beginning, only homosexuals were metrosexuals. Then it became increasingly popular and reached a peak. Slowly it's dampening and its going back to more masculine ideals.

In the end, it doesn't really matter. We are a product of or parents. Ritch parents, rich kids. Broke parents, broke kids. Happy parents, happy kids. We model our parents in one way or another. Females have allways had gender roles and males have allways had gender roles no matter wich popular labels are thrown around. Humans and animals alike, we have instincts.
 

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Crimson is making a good point, based off of the Seductive Reasoning.
I make this point quite often when i get into feminism conversations.
 
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