"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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speakeasy,

Sorry to bust your bubble bruh but no matter how creative or original you are or THINK you are it is only momentarily. Keep in mind that when you send a girl a message it gives her time to THINK which is a very deadly weapon. ;) When you do it in real life you have many different tools (body language, look, eyes etc etc...) that you can implement correctly to properly convey your message but online it just comes across as creepy because it's not NATURAL. The times when people DO hook up is when girls INITIATE or they are forward enough. I mean let's be honest if you send a girl a message she knows and you know what you want but it gives her time to think which screws things up but when a girl sends you a message she has consciously thought it through that she needs some meat. (Lucky you eh??!)

BTW, I am an exceptionally handsome and sexy dude, I have social proof up the ass (online social proof that is luuuooolz!!!) and I don't get jack s**t messages. If you don't believe me you can look at my profile. Again it might SEEM that sexy dudes like me get messages and are knee deep in vagina's think again. Buuuuut it could just be me...

Regardless, moral of the story...don't waste your time PERIOD!. :cool:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So I met a foreign chick in person with a friend last week who actually stopped responding but I re opened it using c&f about how she never gave me the number. I ended up getting it... 5+ convos and I got the meet. I used a follow up text 2 days later got no response, but she answered when I called her yesterday.... Potential

I just went through my inbox along with my myspace inbox and tried re opening girls that stopped responding to me. One girl was real close until I went for the #.... lets see what happens
 
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Definately seems like facebook COULD work, but it's extremely corny.

The only purpose of using facebook for myself is to sell various items of mine on the marketplace.

It's also a great advertising medium.
 
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So I finally did a get a response back from the girl that was writing to me for like months but stopped after I went for the # and she said she was iffy about the facebook thing.

I sent her a message last week and was like "hey you probably forgot about me but just saying hi :)" She responded back a few days later "I didn't forget about you. How are you"

I responded back "I'm good. Still waiting for your number :)"

Haven't heard back yet...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The girl I did meet off facebook is kind of being coy with her responses to me.... I texted her last night asking when we were going to hang out again she didn't respond. After hours later I texted her "or not... .lol" She responded back instantly saying she was at work but was going to talk to her friends and let me know.. I may call her tomorrow.

The good thing is she seems to answer my calls or return them when I talk to her...
 
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jayer you've been wasting your time on facebook whilst you didn't have 100 approaches?
 
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dont worry I finished my real approaches....

Finally called the PR milf yesterday about month after I got her number... she sounded busy but said she'd call me back in 15 mins..... she called back an hour later and we chatted for a bit.... I told her i was tired and had to go after about a 20 min convo....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i called the pr milf yesterday and she answered but said she was about to go into a dance class.... she said she'd text me when she got out to see if i was up. She did.... i was out so i couldnt talk to her but traded a few texts..... so far so good.... Maybe girls with kids are just easier?
 
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so the milf texted me yesterday asking how my day was... I waited a while and responded back... I didnt call her today or text and she didnt either... its hard with a lot of plates spinning. If I have time I may call her Sunday... Im used to building rapport but maybe I will try and set up a meet soon
 
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I'm a musician ... I have a myspace page...

I do not approach girls unless I'm looking to get 'fans' which happens alot.

'Fans' are not like groupies, they will say and do things to get with you but nothing is for-granted so I take all of it with a grain of salt.

Gaming on myspace or facebook is kinda weak. Getting attention from females on such sites is not.
 
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so I basically neglected this girl a little bit because of other plates I have been spinning... I did call her a few days ago in which she answered but since she was about to grab food I told her she could call me later. Since it was late she said she'd text me first... well i decided to text her before "hey me and my friend are going to be in your area thursday, u and a friend should come out" She texted me back late "i have to ask my friend"

So I didnt hear anything since.... so yesterday I texted her "hey we are actually going to be in the city friday instead if you want to come out"

She didnt respond so later on that night I texted her "or not lol...."

She texted back a bit later "i would come out but my friend isnt interested"

She I texted back "its cool. we'll make plans by ourselves one of these days" She texted back "yes we should"

thats that...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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F**k the internet dating game!

I'm chasing success in real life! I have a facebook, but I've been unsuccessful with it. Same with myspace. I hate that sh*t.

I have a better (though not much greater) success rate with women in real life. There is no substitute.
 
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