"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Official Boot Camp Results Thread

Nygard

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Officially done with week 3. I'll be implementing all this 3 weeks on this current one, so i can wait for the guys who repeated W3
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GaryUranga

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k week 3 is done with just 7 convos, but NIIIIIIIIIIIIIICE way to end it, went to the canadian embassy and this girl in the line and I started talking, we talkked for like 1hr was pretty good she was about a 6.5, then inside this girl started a convo with me but her dad called her so it didnt gback this girl was sittign behind me and I was sittign alone, she came over and asked if she could sit with me, she was sooooooooo nervous :p we talked for a LONG time, towards the end she started talkign abotu sex, I kept teasing her about somehtign she had said, I noticed she was digging that teasing, but yeah that was pretty muchj it, I woulda #closed for week4 but my mom was 2 places ahead and its WEIRD to do that with moms around.
 

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Wow, this thread has really died down...where are everyone's results?

I finished week 3 yesterday (after two weeks on it:nervous: ) at a concert where I finished up my remaining conversations and then some. So I'm on the week 4, expect to see some convo's or something because this thread is BORING. Anyone still posting start putting up some FR's :up:
 

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I've kind of dropped out, and my game is probably suffering because of it. Turning AFC again.

Too much work to do though...
 

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Yea, i've finished with 8 convos. Nothing rly big happeneing though.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nygard

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I'm doing Week 4. Might finish this week, but i'm not sure.

Edit: I just finished Week 4. However i'm dropping here because realized that it doesnt matter if i have all the skills when i'm not interested by any single human in this world. It was a blast, thank you all.
 
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I screwed up guys. I didn't take this seriosly enough. But now im going to really put in some effort and I'm going to do this no matter what it takes. 13th of August I start my week zero - asking 30 people for the time.
 

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I saw a video that said the most common question people are asked before they are mugged is "whats the time?".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Im going to start on week 1 on tue 14 aug 2007 if that is ok that i start at this late time? I may try and do 2 weeks worth of tasks in 1 week to try and catch up with you guys. :box:
 

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Carnival tonight, going to be lots of opporitunity. Now for week 4 number close rejections, could we change that to numbers successfully closed?
 

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Same, I would have to reverse what ive learned to get denied, shouldnt I be practicing everything ive gained, I mean iv'e been denied before so I alredy know what its like and I can deal with it already, so should we change it?
 

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dont change week 4 it is the best week! it teaches you how to deal with rejection to the point that you're nearly immune to it, it greatly improves your game to go into a set and try and fvck it up because its approaching things from a different perspective and makes you see things in your game differently and teaches you hey rejection isnt bad its actually quite funny. trust me its hard to get rejections because generally when you ask for a number they give you it. This task pushes you way more out of your comfort zone than all the others. I myself cant wait too reach this point. Good luck!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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navyseal2101

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Hahha, I started this week last night. Sooo much fun. I started with an ESP opener. It went really well, so I told them I was going to test if they are psycic together by tracing half a letter with each of thier hands and they guess the letter, but "got nervous" to touch them and told them I had to leave. I looked at my feet as I asked for number and they said they had boyfriends. I was trying to not laugh the whole time. The denial kinda felt bad though at the first 2 girls, but then it got really fun. I did stuff like say "I love you guys so much, your really hot, if you dont mind could I mabye get your numbers or something, right?". I got denied of course, and its fun to do after the first few, but starting out its hard to not try for a serious number close. Best week so far.
 

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Good job navyseal and Gary for sticking in there, I am unfortunately stopping for a few weeks, hopefully when I decide to start again (on week 4) you guys will still be kicking it on like week 6! Good luck guys:rockon:
 

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Yes!

sorry i havent posted in a while but my internets off. I finally did what i would call me first official approach to a girl i didnt know, even though i made some really AFC mistakes such as forgetting to ask the girl how old she was or her name. Luckily, she lives like a ten minute walk away. I have a fat friend who was with me and my cousin when we went to the park, and the HB happened to be there. We challenged my friend to go and talk to her since he kept looking at her a$s as he passed her. After walkin up to her twice while she watched him and turning back around i got angry with him (it reminded me of when i was a fat loser who cudnt get a girl), i got up and started walking towards her. He bet his phone i wudnt do it and i agreed. I went up to her and her friend, talked for about two minutes and then went back to my friend, which reminds me u didnt ask for her number. Anyway, despite all these mistakes i look at it as a step im the right direction and a major boost in courage for me.:up: Look out world, the first great Bahamian DJ is coming!
 

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GJ Magic, the first real convo always feels good and it get alot easier as you go.
 

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Sorry everyone about my unexplained leave of absence lol. I've been working construction and the 10 hour days, 6 days a week kept me from being able to continue doing the boot camp. However I'm back on and as soon as I find out where I left off I'm going to be back into it. Hopefully there might be a few new people who are around the week I'm on so that we can compare results but if I can't then oh well. The majority of you should be around week 5 or 6 I think and it would be great if everyone could post an updated log of what they accomplished. Something along the lines of:

Week 1:
xx/xx whatever the goal was

Week 2:
xx/xx whatever the goal was


Week 3:
xx/xx whatever the goal was

and so on. Out of curiosity did anyone listen to any of the music picks? lol. Anyways so I'm sry that I kinda went AWOL but I'm back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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