"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Offical Solomon and Rhodey FR thread

Solomon

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Rhodey said he will teach me how to be a "super-Player"
It's simple we gonna post our field reports here with pics
We gonna choose a starting date, and go for a week:rolleyes:
We need a judge to moderate this fairly.....
This isn't about a who is the best gamer but rhodey says he is a Super player and wants to show me how it's done, I love the field so why not?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daydream Engineer said:
Hey solomon, with all due respect shouldn't naturals not care what amogs think about them? I mean your even named after the king of israel haha

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Solomon
LOL! Good question. Maybe he's not a natural?

Uncle T your nephew is at it again. :whistle:

Uncle T recommends that you don't hug scrotums:nono:
 
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