Let's assume you've mastered your desires, social skills, and have a good idea how to pick up women. Yet, you still have problems landing one on a steady basis or for that matter finding that it takes more time than it should to get her to go steady or go for a sex close. Sometimes its you and sometimes its not, but what is certain that all DJs will face obstacles of some kind.
The first obstacle is the easiest to deal with, its you. If you'rr a slob, socially inept, or not as calculating in what you saw and how you say it to your lady. These are all things that can be roadblocks on your way to getting a GF or getting laid. This is the easiest obstacle to deal with because all it requires is for you to make certain things a habit like cleaning, working out, and training yourself to become a conversationalist.
The second obstacle is her friends. If you can't get an in with them, then they'll have it in for you. Two schools of thought on this one, either meet them early and get it over with, or wait and meet them once you have established a rapport with your girl. Both are decent approaches depending on the situation, if your girl is tied to the hip with her friends meet them early and be on your smoothest, politest game and get a good endorsement from them. If your girl doesn't care right away, then put off meeting them till later. Be smooth with your lady, and she will talk you up to her friends, which will at least put it in their mind that your a catch and predisposses them to liking you. But what if they have it in for you?
Well first things first, invalidate their concerns by validating their concerns. If your girl mentions that her friends worry about her and what kind of guy you are, here's what you do. First off tell her there just being good friends, and that since they dont know you their doing what they think is best. It should clam her down and down play her friends concern. Of course a lot of girls tend to think collectively when it comes to dating. If she starts to back away, call her bluff, if she is a flake, she is a flake. If every guy called the bluffs of women, they wouldn't have a rock to crawl under.
The third obstacle is your "friends," yeah thats why they call it **** blocking. They either do it out of spite or accident, either way it will happen. If you know someone who will do it just to **** you over make him a non issue by making him a joke in a conversation when you talk about your "crazy friends." The ones who do it by accident are easier to deal with I find that telling them straight up that they **** things up for tends to take the wind out of their sails, and they can't sail the S.S. Idiot into a position to sink your love boat. Of course if they're too dumb to see what they are doing you can simply tell them that if they **** block you again you'll either ruin his chances with any girl he meets or drop a beating on him. Of course its even easier to send them on an errand of some kind if they are the helpful idiot and that should keep them busy will you can make a move on your woman.
-Grey Fox
The first obstacle is the easiest to deal with, its you. If you'rr a slob, socially inept, or not as calculating in what you saw and how you say it to your lady. These are all things that can be roadblocks on your way to getting a GF or getting laid. This is the easiest obstacle to deal with because all it requires is for you to make certain things a habit like cleaning, working out, and training yourself to become a conversationalist.
The second obstacle is her friends. If you can't get an in with them, then they'll have it in for you. Two schools of thought on this one, either meet them early and get it over with, or wait and meet them once you have established a rapport with your girl. Both are decent approaches depending on the situation, if your girl is tied to the hip with her friends meet them early and be on your smoothest, politest game and get a good endorsement from them. If your girl doesn't care right away, then put off meeting them till later. Be smooth with your lady, and she will talk you up to her friends, which will at least put it in their mind that your a catch and predisposses them to liking you. But what if they have it in for you?
Well first things first, invalidate their concerns by validating their concerns. If your girl mentions that her friends worry about her and what kind of guy you are, here's what you do. First off tell her there just being good friends, and that since they dont know you their doing what they think is best. It should clam her down and down play her friends concern. Of course a lot of girls tend to think collectively when it comes to dating. If she starts to back away, call her bluff, if she is a flake, she is a flake. If every guy called the bluffs of women, they wouldn't have a rock to crawl under.
The third obstacle is your "friends," yeah thats why they call it **** blocking. They either do it out of spite or accident, either way it will happen. If you know someone who will do it just to **** you over make him a non issue by making him a joke in a conversation when you talk about your "crazy friends." The ones who do it by accident are easier to deal with I find that telling them straight up that they **** things up for tends to take the wind out of their sails, and they can't sail the S.S. Idiot into a position to sink your love boat. Of course if they're too dumb to see what they are doing you can simply tell them that if they **** block you again you'll either ruin his chances with any girl he meets or drop a beating on him. Of course its even easier to send them on an errand of some kind if they are the helpful idiot and that should keep them busy will you can make a move on your woman.
-Grey Fox