"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The "obesity epidemic" is bogus

Deep Dish

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When you look around in your daily lives, you probably see many people whom are chubby, fat, and orca whale obese. If the grocery store were a beach, it would often not be somewhere you want to see a bikini. Naturally enough, you probably want to nod your head in the affirmative when you hear nutritionists or fitness gurus speak of an obesity "epidemic." It rings truth. One study found the healthiest Yanks are less healthy than the least healthy Brits (although by the same token Brits are the fattest Europeans). Yet, is there really an "epidemic?"

Look, I believe Americans are healthier now than ever before in history. The marvels of modern medicine are amazing and our knowledge of the human body is continually expanding. Our knowledge of diet, nutrition, and exercise trumps Donald Trumps' real estate empire. I surmise the average standard of living has never been better. America is a nation obsessed with health. It's hard to miss hearing about the latest health news, neighborhood gyms are big business, television are flooded with commercials for fitness equipment, bookstore magazine racks are swimming in promoting general nutrition. Women, in particular, are obessed with health talk. There's no doubt Americans spend extravagantly more on healthcare than any other country.

Claims of the "obesity epidemic" are based largely upon the BMI, body mass index. The BMI only takes into account body weight and height, but since muscle is denser than fat and both weigh the same, the fittest individuals can be "overweight". Under this scheme, Brad Pitt is overweight and George Clooney is obese. To further compound the deception of the "epidemic", about a decade ago BMI standards of what consitutes healthy weight were changed and so overnight many previously healthy people were suddenly overweight. It's fallacious ot claim "epidemic" from merely changing definitions.

There are those who claim there is a "conspiracy" by doctors and the nutrition/fitness industries to "make you sick" (and therefore need their services), but I disagree. I believe this problem arises out of people's best intentions. We genuinely want to be healthy and wish others to be healthy; consequently as medical knowledge expands and deepens, we continually refine and gradually restrict our definitions of good health. As such, inventing a surging obesity epidemic out of thin air may have the positive side effect of creating a healthier human species. Nonetheless, the "epidemic" is bad thinking.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazy Asian

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go read "Natural Cures" by Kevin Trudeau
 

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I don't know where you live, but beaches by here there are more fat asses than skinny people so go figure
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This is rediculous - AMericans are fatter, stupider and uglier than ever.The reason why there is so much interest in health is because americans by in large are a sick disgusting breed.

Mcdonalds is certainly more popular that a health club - duh
 

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Agent Zero said:
People are fatter than ever. People in the South, in particular, are disgusting, but if you live in a young, urban area I could see why you'd think people aren't so fat.
Yeah exactly, I totally know what you mean. I was from New York City, then I moved to a small town, and then I moved back to NYC and what you said is right on with my observations.
 

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Deep Dish said:
...Claims of the "obesity epidemic" are based largely upon the BMI, body mass index. The BMI only takes into account body weight and height, but since muscle is denser than fat and both weigh the same, the fittest individuals can be "overweight". ...
You're referencing an outdated BMI calculation. True BMI also takes into account a person's waist size. Walk outside and 6 out of every 10 people you see will have a waist size larger than what is healthy for their height and weight.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I definitely agree that there is a problem in the States with obesity. I noticed it even more this summer when I went to Washington DC for an internship. Coming back to Vancouver made it obvious how many more fat people there are in the States. There's hardly any here...
 

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I was eating lunch yesterday with a german whose been stateside for two years and a polish girl whose been for 5. The german guy is minimum 260 at around 5'8, the polish girl probably 160 at 5'2". They actually had the balls to start talking about how fat americans were when my 180lb 5'10" american ass is sitting with them. I dont know if it's a pride thing, or a their lack of mirrors but they were some of the fattest people in the place.

WTF is up with people ragging on americans for being fat? Come on with the Vancouver ****. You can piss over the border. The only difference between Vancouver and any other large cosmopolitan US city is your money looks different.
 
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I know that American Hors are getting fatter because of all the sperm that is entering their orifices!! Europeans may have smaller sperm intake!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I know that American Hors are getting fatter because of all the sperm that is entering their orifices!! Europeans may have smaller sperm intake!
Now that Europe lives under Islamic Law the hors have had to go underground again...

Maybe living under Islam won't be so bad. If all we had to do was pray towards Mecca 5x a day to make women stop being so crazy then it'll be worth it.

Who's with me on this?

:eek: :rolleyes:
 

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You could have just summed this topic up with:

"BMI Calculator is garbage".
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bible_Belt said:
Americans are fat. Call it what you want.
Agreed. Go anywhere abroad and you can easily spot all the American tourists a mile away...I mean, like literally... :crackup:

Seriously, only after you go international do you realize what "normal" is again and how fvcking fat a good number of Americans are!
 

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wayword said:
Agreed. Go anywhere abroad and you can easily spot all the American tourists a mile away...I mean, like literally... :crackup:

Yup. that is the absolute truth. The irony of this is those same fat slobs abroad begin to act like their s**t don't stink. Then they begin to think they're studs become some desperate local girls give them attention because they have a U.S. passport.



Seriously, only after you go international do you realize what "normal" is again and how fvcking fat a good number of Americans are!
I can't figure out how so many American people are letting themselves go like this. Women are looking like pigs outside bigger cities. I don't give a guy a free pass either. Usually I hear all these fat guys complaining about how fat women are. In fact, they seem to complain about it the most.

I just look at them and say "Dude, those heffers are multiplying, but you know it takes much more effort for a guy to be obese than a woman". Women have slower metabolisms so she shoves less food in there than a guy her size would have to ,to be obese" .Most guys are absolutely clueless to the fact they're fat. They try to pass it off as being big,or it's all muscle. Wake up!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Mcdonalds

"Over 1 billion served"
The nation is a product of a "I want it now" mentality. We have the ability to (over)indulge without having to put forth an equal or greater amount of effort in order to have it. We see it both in our waistlines and our debt.

Ever notice that the people who are the most financially challenged have the largest waistlines? Why is it that people who are the most fiscally fit are typically equally physically fit?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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